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so I had a date with a new girl today who I had actually been in communication with online on an on and off basis for three months , we had coffee , visited an aquarium , played a game of crazy golf and then had a walk along the seaside , we kissed several times towards the end of the date
thing is though , Im not really that crazy about this girl , for once , she is more into me , I had a date with another girl who I do really like two weeks ago , the one I told I " like " , this girl has an incredibly full scheduele and we have not been able to meet up since
so heres what im wondering , were all adults , girl I saw today knew I had been on other dates lately and she discussed hers today with me , we had a laugh about how awful some were , would it pay off to tell the one I really like that I was on a date today with another girl , granted the girl I really like turned me down this past two weekends due to being busy and im the one who always has to text first , or would the girl I really like in a special way be likely to view me as a slimeball , I realise no one here is a mind reader and that im not exclusive with either of these girls but does letting a girl know she has competition make them up their game and come out as to whether they are serious or not or would she be likely to tell me to sling my hook ?
the girl who im not that crazy about is a nice lady too , I don't really want to string her along , Im thinking if the one who I do really like knew I had options , she might be quicker to let me know if shes interested
she told me via text ten days ago that she would like to see me again but that she doesn't know what she really wants , she also a lot more coy than the girl I was out with today who is pretty upfront about how she enjoys my company
im no Clooney so perhaps I should just stick with the one who is into me , this other girl who I prefer may just not be that into me , like I said she never initiates communication and its not that she is rude , shes anything but
so I had a date with a new girl today who I had actually been in communication with online on an on and off basis for three months , we had coffee , visited an aquarium , played a game of crazy golf and then had a walk along the seaside , we kissed several times towards the end of the date
thing is though , Im not really that crazy about this girl , for once , she is more into me , I had a date with another girl who I do really like two weeks ago , the one I told I " like " , this girl has an incredibly full scheduele and we have not been able to meet up since
so heres what im wondering , were all adults , girl I saw today knew I had been on other dates lately and she discussed hers today with me , we had a laugh about how awful some were , would it pay off to tell the one I really like that I was on a date today with another girl , granted the girl I really like turned me down this past two weekends due to being busy and im the one who always has to text first , or would the girl I really like in a special way be likely to view me as a slimeball , I realise no one here is a mind reader and that im not exclusive with either of these girls but does letting a girl know she has competition make them up their game and come out as to whether they are serious or not or would she be likely to tell me to sling my hook ?
No. You're breaking the man code, just keep your mouth shut! Enjoy the ride while it last.
I would say you should just be honest, it would be much easier that way.
You're not married or engaged to either one of them, but it's easier if they understand there is no committment on your part, often the problems arise because too many people assume a second date is just like marrying someone.
1. The woman you haven't seen for weeks doesn't like you. If she did, she would make time to see you and, at the very least, make effort to communicate with you.
2. Telling a woman she has "competition" for the purpose of putting pressure on her is not going to turn out well. Women who respond to that tactic have issues. (There are some morons here who think normal women like it - we do not.)
3. Don't stay with someone just because she is into you. It's not fair to her if you're using her to fill a void because the person you really like isn't responding in kind.
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