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Why can't we expand this idea on a larger scale? We are brainwashed and led to believe that this is right or that is wrong.
I don't think prostitution is wrong. It is an old profession should be legalized.
I’m not saying that one can not have a relationship with a prostitute, there are enough examples in the world that say the complete opposite,
but it's really relative to the definition of a relationship for each one of us and of what each one of us wants out of this relationship. if you define a relationship as spending some non-emotional sex time with your partner and not caring that she,in this case considering that it's her 'job', had sex with an other person the night before, you would be 100% right, but that is not the case, we are not all the same, i can't even imagine myself in the shoes of a person having a relationship with a prostitute, because my definition to a relationship is totally different, and the very majority have a total different definition.
As for the tiny number of people that could do that well i assure you that at some point they will be involved emotionally, we are just who we are and we are not without feelings, and when that might happen, it will be a painful experience. so i guess that it is possible to have a relationship with a prostitute but not a successful one.
I love to observe people. To study and observe the nature of individuals. I am a fantastic listener and there are certain observations I have made.
Without going into too much details on why or how I feel this way, I think that happiness especially when concerned with relationship and love is not just fleeting but impossible. ...I asked a beautiful Thai girl to be my lover, my amour for a few weeks of a certain month each year. There was fun, there was an UNDERSTANDING. Sex was hardly the agenda. She came from a poor background and the bare basic affordabilities made her content(no expensive gifts and stuff). In return I was getting a good supply of love, sex and understanding. We talked about astronomy, my business plans, her grandparents. And that was it!
Several questions here, most importantly you started a recent thread in the travel forum, something about bringing this new girlfriend that you are madly in love with to the US or England, which in essense totally contradicts your free love (or, as the case may be, "purchased love") open philosophy.
I'm not questioning your ethics, but the contradictions.
Now, on the subject of prostitutes....we all know that other countries are more practical with the idea of prostitution then the US. In certain Asian countries it's as normal and accepted as getting a haircut for a man. Yeah, I've spent enough time in Asia. But, with that practicality comes a certain understanding, most men know this, the ones that don't end up very disappointed or ripped off:
1.) In no way is a prostitute interested in anything but money. The rest - conversation, talking about your future, love, enjoying the act of sex, is an ILLUSION done as part of the deal, it's part of the financial contract. This is there job, what they do to feed themselves and there children, and many are very good at it. The "girlfriend experience" is a bonus, it's enjoyable, but you pay for that bonus. But once again it's an illusion.
2.) Prostitutes lie. Take it for granted. They lie about what they do, they lie about who they are, they lie about who they see, they lie about where they were an hour ago, a day ago. If you think they are not seeing anyone but you then you are fooling yourself. Why do they lie? - see #1.
There is a "ten commandmants" of sorts written for whoremongers that I ran across on the internet. The two above were of course part of the ten commandments.
The human needs can be taken care of through porn and masturbation. It's better and cheaper.
If you have NEVER had sex with a woman, then I would say, it might serve to demystify and make females less intimidating, but as a source of companionship, that's not what it's for.
I don't think prostitution is wrong. It is an old profession should be legalized.
I’m not saying that one can not have a relationship with a prostitute, there are enough examples in the world that say the complete opposite,
but it's really relative to the definition of a relationship for each one of us and of what each one of us wants out of this relationship. if you define a relationship as spending some non-emotional sex time with your partner and not caring that she,in this case considering that it's her 'job', had sex with an other person the night before, you would be 100% right, but that is not the case, we are not all the same, i can't even imagine myself in the shoes of a person having a relationship with a prostitute, because my definition to a relationship is totally different, and the very majority have a total different definition.
As for the tiny number of people that could do that well i assure you that at some point they will be involved emotionally, we are just who we are and we are not without feelings, and when that might happen, it will be a painful experience. so i guess that it is possible to have a relationship with a prostitute but not a successful one.
1.) In no way is a prostitute interested in anything but money. The rest - conversation, talking about your future, love, enjoying the act of sex, is an ILLUSION done as part of the deal, it's part of the financial contract. This is there job, what they do to feed themselves and there children, and many are very good at it. The "girlfriend experience" is a bonus, it's enjoyable, but you pay for that bonus. But once again it's an illusion.
2.) Prostitutes lie. Take it for granted. They lie about what they do, they lie about who they are, they lie about who they see, they lie about where they were an hour ago, a day ago. If you think they are not seeing anyone but you then you are fooling yourself. Why do they lie? - see #1.
There is a "ten commandmants" of sorts written for whoremongers that I ran across on the internet. The two above were of course part of the ten commandments.
haha, contradiction in terms. "prostitute" and "mine" don't belong in the same sentence.
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for a few weeks of a certain month each year. There was fun, there was an UNDERSTANDING. Sex was hardly the agenda. She came from a poor background and the bare basic affordabilities made her content(no expensive gifts and stuff). In return I was getting a good supply of love, sex and understanding. We talked about astronomy, my business plans, her grandparents. And that was it!
