Women who dominate men are more common these days than the opposite (long-term, calling)

[aleecya]

No, I have not noticed that
You have to keep in mind that coordinating schedules is apart of a relationship. There are more women with higher paying jobs then men which could have tipped the balance a bit ( in your eyes). There is a lot of men that have become more metro sexual then ever before . Men from older generations did not care if there was product in there hair or if there nails were professionally groomed. Have you ever considered that perhaps your friends may not be great with money or time management which then there wives or LTG help them manage. I have noticed that the maturity level has changed with men vs those of an older generation.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by Collateral

Why would I date someone I'm not sexually attracted to?

Did I say you should? Nope. Never did.

Why should you date someone that tries to control you?

See, two could play the false dichotomy game.

[Collateral]

Originally Posted by Cantabridgienne

Which men? Your father is too weak? Your friends? You?

Read the thread

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by Collateral

Most women I've dated tried to "be the boss".

The two I dated that were submissive were foreigners (not American).

Again, seems like you have poor taste in women. You're attracted to bad people, like your friends are. You might want to fix that.

[Collateral]

Originally Posted by timberline742

Did I say you should? Nope. Never did.

Why should you date someone that tries to control you?

See, two could play the false dichotomy game.

Most only become controlling once the relationship is established .

[Cantabridgienne]

Sounds like you have a healthy, happy outlook, Collateral. Have fun with that! Maybe creating a few more posts on the internet will make you feel ever better.

[G-fused]

Originally Posted by Collateral

Lies, manipulation, blackmail, threats, trying to create jealousy, comparing me to men in movies, cutting off sex, etc.

None of it ever works. If a woman wants me to do something she should simply verbalized it and I'll decide if it's something I'm willing to do or not.

You haven't found someone who is a good person (plenty out there) and who loves you...yet.

You just need to lose the attitiude. But I suspect it's just your Internet attitude, not your real life one.

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by Collateral

Most women I've dated tried to "be the boss".

The two I dated that were submissive were foreigners (not American).

So...you basically want to boss someone else around and not have them stand up for themselves.

Sounds healthy.

[Collateral]

Originally Posted by G-fused

You haven't found someone who is a good person (plenty out there) and who loves you...yet.

You just need to lose the attitiude. But I suspect it's just your Internet attitude, not your real life one.

I'm very nice to people as long as they are respectful and non-judgemental. I get an attitude when people judge me. I'm usually thinking: who are you anyway? Lol.

[Collateral]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

So...you basically want to boss someone else around and not have them stand up for themselves.

Sounds healthy.

Nope. Read the whole thread