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Old 04-29-2014, 12:37 PM
 
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lol it's okay, your time will come! and it's been 5 years, don't stress about him unless you still have feelings?

 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Why did OP break up with him? Why is OP acting butthurt?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:42 PM
 
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I agree with you on the it wasn't that quick, but I think there are things for you to think about from this.

It's natural to wonder what exes are doing and with the invention of social media, it is all too easy to figure it out. However, why are you so unhappy about the news that someone that you haven't spoken to in five years has gotten married? Why haven't you been dating since? Did you expect him to pine after you for five years and crawl into a hole? Why does it matter to you what his wife looks like?

Also, the thing about his wife. How she looks is irrelevant, because you're not competing with her.
I have been dating during the past 5 years, but just not in any exclusive relationships.

Honestly, I just want to know if his wife is black. He claimed to prefer black women and I want to know if he actually married one or if he just went through a black fetish when he was younger.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:49 PM
 
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I have been dating during the past 5 years, but just not in any exclusive relationships.

Honestly, I just want to know if his wife is black. He claimed to prefer black women and I want to know if he actually married one or if he just went through a black fetish when he was younger.

Totally, totally unproductive. Don't you want a relationship of your own?

If so, you need to work through your own issues.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:55 PM
 
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Why did OP break up with him?
We had problems and weren't happy.

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Why is OP acting butthurt?
Because I am! For the record, I'd be upset if I found out any guy I once cared for was married- not just him.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:56 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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I have been dating during the past 5 years, but just not in any exclusive relationships.

Honestly, I just want to know if his wife is black. He claimed to prefer black women and I want to know if he actually married one or if he just went through a black fetish when he was younger.
Even if it was a fetish or not that is really not a good reason to want to know whether his wife was black or not. Why does that even matter?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:59 PM
 
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Even if it was a fetish or not that is really not a good reason to want to know whether his wife was black or not. Why does that even matter?
I know it doesn't matter but I'm still curious. How is it any worse than just wanting to know whether she's prettier or something?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 12:59 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Wait..he got married. You're single..You won. Seriously, you won.
^ This, hahahaha, seriously, this! OP, I've had several exes get married (some to the girl right after me) and they are all divorced now.. Hell, I even have one ex who professed his undying love for me- while engaged to another woman, lolol.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Because I am! For the record, I'd be upset if I found out any guy I once cared for was married- not just him.


Is this just you or are all women like this? Why be upset!! NO COMPRENDE!!
 
Old 04-29-2014, 01:00 PM
 
Location: Mount Laurel
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So I recently discovered that my ex-boyfriend got married and I'm kind of not happy about this. I haven't seen or spoken to him in the five years since we broke up and knew absolutely nothing about what was going on in his life. I assumed he was dating or in a relationship, but not MARRIED!!! I WAS SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED BEFORE HE DID, BUT I'VE BEEN SINGLE EVER SINCE I BROKE UP WITH HIM.

He wasn't a horrible guy so I guess he deserves to be happy, but . I haven't seen the girl yet, but I really want to know what she looks like.

He moved on and sounds like you need to do the same. In reality, this is what most BF/GF should do once they break up.
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