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Okay just making sure. I just got a little confused by that. I am a black female myself. But still though....you shouldn't really be freaking out over this guy. He's moved on, and you need to move on to.
Okay just making sure. I just got a little confused by that. I am a black female myself. But still though....you shouldn't really be freaking out over this guy. He's moved on, and you need to move on to.
I feel like I have moved on. I regret that things didn't work out, but I don't spend a lot of time thinking about him. I'm just being honest that I was taken aback when I found out about his marriage.
I feel like I have moved on. I regret that things didn't work out, but I don't spend a lot of time thinking about him. I'm just being honest that I was taken aback when I found out about his marriage.
Yes, but there's a level of curiosity that is natural, but there is fixating on things about his wife that isn't quite-so-natural that proves you may not be as over him as you'd think. I mean, after five years, it shouldn't be a shock that he got married. 24-29 is a pretty key age in that mess as well so there's no need to be taken aback by it and the original post made it sound like you were more irritated that you weren't where you thought you'd be by now and that he shouldn't be there because you didn't get there yet.
Yes, but there's a level of curiosity that is natural, but there is fixating on things about his wife that isn't quite-so-natural that proves you may not be as over him as you'd think. I mean, after five years, it shouldn't be a shock that he got married. 24-29 is a pretty key age in that mess as well so there's no need to be taken aback by it and the original post made it sound like you were more irritated that you weren't where you thought you'd be by now and that he shouldn't be there because you didn't get there yet.
Yes, that's true. If I were engaged or married, I wouldn't care that he was. It upsets me only because I'm single.
I date all the time. I try. I don't know what else I can do.
I scanned your post history a bit, you do know exactly what you need to do, but you don't want to do it.
The fact is, you're not going to get past the relationship roadblocks until you sort this out.
You can "date," which it sounds like you're doing, but you want a relationship, not to just "date."
Your problem precludes you from relationships with healthy, heterosexual men.
Period.
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