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Wow, talk about a sense of entitlement. I'm not trying to be funny or mean, but you don't or can't even have sex. How long is a marriage like that going to last, if you can't even please your husband sexually?
Bingo. Marriage timelines are the last thing OP needs to worry about.
She won't even be able to get into a short- to medium-term relationship with her current set of issues.
So, she's worried about her ex getting married, when in fact all normal, healthy heterosexual males and the resulting relationships are completely unavailable to her because of her problem.
my exboyfriend, i just learned a few days ago from a mutual facebook "friend", that he has a girlfriend now. apparently he posted a photo of the two of them and she asked him about it. so she wanted to know if i wanted to get together for coffee. fortunately for me, i cannot see the picture. it would only torture me more to see it.
we just broke up a few months ago. i'm just getting back into the dating world, so i'm shocked that he has found someone already. i think it's too soon, but i guess he wanted to find someone right away. i know that before we were all the way broken up he was already on match. com with a full profile. he got with me before his divorce was final, so i think he just can't be alone? i'm not surprised he would move on, but it does make me feel like he replaced me so fast that i wasn't quite as special as he always tried to make me seem to be to him. feels like he really didn't love me that much if he could actively search and find someone else so soon. even though i am the one who broke up with him, it still hurts.
but in my case it has been only a few months. you have been separated from your ex for five years? that's a long time. i wouldn't call that getting married "soon".
i know it still hurts sometimes no matter how long it has been. but i would try to just move on and carry on with your life and try to not let it get to you. sometimes i find myself thinking about ex and i have to literally tell myself "stop" and force myself to think of something else. sigh....breaking up sucks.
i think your issue with this is completely different than mine and my situation. anyway, i still think it's better for you to just stop thinking about him and her and worry about yourself. you two broke up a long time ago, time to let it go.
Why is it on here that women always attack the man in question in an effort to comfort the women? How about she just wan't good enough, and he found somebody better. I know that sucks to hear, but that's life. It happens to all of us, no need to make excuses and blow smoke up her butt.
Take a good long think about the kind of person you want to be. Do you want to be the kind of person who gets upset when other people do something that makes them happier? Is that really the route you want to take?
Wow, talk about a sense of entitlement. I'm not trying to be funny or mean, but you don't or can't even have sex. How long is a marriage like that going to last, if you can't even please your husband sexually?
OP:
You do sound entitled.
That would be a huge turn off for a guy who might be interested in you.
So then you would be back at square one with no guy in your life.
I dont know why he rushed to get married unless he is stupid.
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Originally Posted by oh-eve
Think like this - if he married so quickly, he might not have chosen wisely.
Am I the only one that noticed that she hasn't seen the dude in five years? I see nothing to indicate that he was married six months after the breakup.
Did he sign a legal document stating that he wouldn't get married until after you did? If not, I'm not sure what the point of that comment was.
I scanned your post history a bit, you do know exactly what you need to do, but you don't want to do it.
The fact is, you're not going to get past the relationship roadblocks until you sort this out.
You can "date," which it sounds like you're doing, but you want a relationship, not to just "date."
Your problem precludes you from relationships with healthy, heterosexual men.
Period.
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Originally Posted by 14Bricks
Wow, talk about a sense of entitlement. I'm not trying to be funny or mean, but you don't or can't even have sex. How long is a marriage like that going to last, if you can't even please your husband sexually?
Ok, let's talk about the sex issue. My ex who this thread is about is really the only person I've ever tried to have sex with. Before I met him, I knew that I was terrified of gyn exams, inserting tampons, and stuff like that, but I thought that I'd be in a different frame of mind if I were trying to have sex with someone. Well, we tried many times over the course of our 17 month relationship and while we never had intercourse, we did do other stuff that resulted in him getting off. We had other problems though that made me think that maybe he wasn't really the person I should be having sex with anyway, so I stopped trying and broke up with him.
Since I broke up with him, I've only been naked with one other guy and I told him about my issue, so he didn't try to penetrate me. We were only intimate once because he lives in another state, but we had fun and if I could've seen him more often, I probably would've tried it with him at some point.
Aside from those two, I've only told like two other guys who I've dated about my issue, so that means that the majority of the guys who I date never even find out about it because we don't get close to having sex within the 1-4 dates that we have.
Lastly, I would not expect a guy to marry me if intercourse was really important to him. Either we'd have to do it successfully before we got married or I'd have to marry someone who couldn't have intercourse or who was ok with not having it.
YTou have to forgt your ex and try to find other man,like me cause i am single too and i am looking to find the right woman to marry soon,why not you?I invite you to exchange emails in order to know each other better and see if we have chemistry-My mail its ronaldsolispaz@yahoo.com.Reply soon,kisses.
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