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Old 04-29-2014, 02:28 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Hmm...an ex from 5 YEARS ago? That means you should let go already.

 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:30 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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she's going to look like his wife no matter what you think of how she looks, so what's the difference?
lol.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:35 PM
 
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We had problems and weren't happy.


Because I am! For the record, I'd be upset if I found out any guy I once cared for was married- not just him.
Take a good long think about the kind of person you want to be. Do you want to be the kind of person who gets upset when other people do something that makes them happier? Is that really the route you want to take?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:37 PM
 
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Hmm...an ex from 5 YEARS ago? That means you should let go already.


OP:

You live your life. Let him live his life with his wife.

Time to move on.

My husband had an ex girlfriend who could not move on after he broke up with her in 2002. She would continuously leave messages on his answering machine professing her undying love for him.

It got to the point that I had to send her a Facebook message letting her know that she has to move on.

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Old 04-29-2014, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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So I recently discovered that my ex-boyfriend got married and I'm kind of not happy about this. I haven't seen or spoken to him in the five years since we broke up and knew absolutely nothing about what was going on in his life. I assumed he was dating or in a relationship, but not MARRIED!!! I WAS SUPPOSED TO GET MARRIED BEFORE HE DID, BUT I'VE BEEN SINGLE EVER SINCE I BROKE UP WITH HIM.

He wasn't a horrible guy so I guess he deserves to be happy, but . I haven't seen the girl yet, but I really want to know what she looks like.
Wow, talk about a sense of entitlement. I'm not trying to be funny or mean, but you don't or can't even have sex. How long is a marriage like that going to last, if you can't even please your husband sexually?
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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It could mean he was desperate and settled because he was sure he would never get such a great person like you again.

Think like this - if he married so quickly, he might not have chosen wisely.
Why is it on here that women always attack the man in question in an effort to comfort the women? How about she just wan't good enough, and he found somebody better. I know that sucks to hear, but that's life. It happens to all of us, no need to make excuses and blow smoke up her butt.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Perhaps it would be more productive to think about why you are single 5 years later?
Exactly, after five years its time to move on with your life. He's definitely moved on with his.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:48 PM
 
Location: southern california
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He who stays single longest wins
Except for vampires
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:53 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Is this how all women think?

Why do you want to know what she looks like?
In my experience, yes. Probably the equivalent of men wondering was the other guy bigger.
 
Old 04-29-2014, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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I have been dating during the past 5 years, but just not in any exclusive relationships.

Honestly, I just want to know if his wife is black. He claimed to prefer black women and I want to know if he actually married one or if he just went through a black fetish when he was younger.

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