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It would really depend on the woman and on the context of our relationship. Chances are if I am attracted to a woman and I find their company interesting, I would rather just date them. I have no ethical issue with ONS or arrangements of the sort but for me personally I'm not sufficiently emotionally detached from the act of sex to have them.
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It is VERY WRONG and should NEVER be done by ANYONE. I know a lot of people do it but it is SHAMEFUL and DISGUSTING and UNGODLY and NASTY. People these days are MESSED UP.
Oddly, this is how my relationships have started out, other than my first serious bf who I didn't have sex with Until two years into it. My next boyfriend I was just trying to rebound, he was the second person I ever had sex with, and wasn't looking for anything. He was apparently shocked at this, and the fact that I never called or texted, so he tracked me down and we ended up dating for a year and half. Next guy, same thing, and a two year relationship. Then again, it happened only ended up a five year relationship. That is my whole life since high school. Four people, four long term relationships.
Ironically enough the whole "not clingy" and wanting someone like " that " backfired. In every relationship it ended up with the guy complaining I didn't seem like I "cared", why wouldn't I ever want to PDA or be intimate and cuddly, etc. which is normally what a female might say?
Personally I have just never felt the need to hug, kiss, etc. and have been told by family I am the "ice queen". It's not that I don't care, I just don't wear my emotions on my sleeve per say.
It is VERY WRONG and should NEVER be done by ANYONE. I know a lot of people do it but it is SHAMEFUL and DISGUSTING and UNGODLY and NASTY. People these days are MESSED UP.
Why is that? What you describe is rape as well as an opinion held by a religious extremist.
ONS are consensual and ethical. It's not for me but I could care less what other adults decide to do at the spur of the moment.
I can't. I am willing to do most of the work for warming a woman's heart, but would like her to trust and respect me for taking care. I will only get intimate with women after falling in deeper love and getting to know her well. Otherwise, I have to admit feeling heartbroken.
One night stands make both of us feel like a sex tools, which is just sickening.
Last edited by Adi from the Brunswicks; 05-06-2014 at 07:05 AM..
It is VERY WRONG and should NEVER be done by ANYONE. I know a lot of people do it but it is SHAMEFUL and DISGUSTING and UNGODLY and NASTY. People these days are MESSED UP.
So it is written, so it shall be done!
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