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Old 06-08-2014, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Give some examples please?
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:32 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Lol, this is going to be good.

Most women don't approach
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:33 PM
 
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Hahaha.

I have never approached anyone actually. But when I see a dude that's cute, I won't say anything because:

1. Too shy
2. May have a girlfriend

Those are the only "presumptions" I have ever made.
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:34 PM
 
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Lol, this is going to be good.

Most women don't approach
Lol some do.
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:37 PM
 
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Give some examples please?
I presume nothing. I don't understand this thing about presuming reasons to not approach. I approach randomly anyone. Which is to say, I'll chat with anyone.
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:38 PM
 
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I was going to make this exact thread a week ago as the flip side, but got distracted. lol
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hahaha.

I have never approached anyone actually. But when I see a dude that's cute, I won't say anything because:

1. Too shy
2. May have a girlfriend

Those are the only "presumptions" I have ever made.
They are good ones.

I assume many are married,

1.Dressed well
2.Doesn't even make eye contact
3.The age 30+
4.Wears rings that could be a wedding ring.
5.Has a kid.
6.Types of food he buys.
7.Quiet.
8.Too goodlooking to possibly be single.
9.Dresses down (Has a woman no need to dress up)
10.Very awkward.
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Lol some do.
Of course, some do.

BTW: giving a stare of interest isn't considered "approaching", Lol
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I presume nothing. I don't understand this thing about presuming reasons to not approach. I approach randomly anyone. Which is to say, I'll chat with anyone.
(So do I) lol
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I was going to make this exact thread a week ago as the flip side, but got distracted. lol
I did it for you!
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Old 06-08-2014, 05:43 PM
 
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Lol, this is going to be good.

Most women don't approach
This.

Which I should think is enough proof that contrary to popular propaganda and all the "Grrrrl power!" bulldrek we are constantly bombarded with, women are absolutely TERRIFIED of rejection.

Yet men are supposed to just take it in the teeth, over and over and over and over.....

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Lol some do.
Yes, some. I have seen it personally.

Generally it's the fat ones, or those with some other undesirable element to them (age, appearance, whatever).

They know they aren't going to be approached by pretty much anyone, so they swing for the fences. Ugh.

One more reason I'm glad I've figured out how to be practically invisible on those rare occasions when I do go places that I might have to deal with females.
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