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Every woman I know who are physically or sexually attracted to a particular guy either gets cheated on, become a single mom, or end up in credit debt from a relationship with a good looking guy who had nothing going for himself. These women never learn and repeat the same process again.
Great point. We women should just stick to dating ugly men because ugly men are virtuous, will never cheat, will never leave a pregnant girlfriend, and are all massively financially successful.
Great point. We women should just stick to dating ugly men because ugly men are virtuous, will never cheat, will never leave a pregnant girlfriend, and are all massively financially successful.
Great post. These not-so-hot, self-proclaimed nice guys have resentment issues toward women and often misogynists. They get angry when women go for hot guys, but these same guys will say things like, "I know I'm unattractive/bald/overweight, but I want a woman who is a 10 who accepts me as I am."
Talk about double standards.
I've witnessed plenty of women get dogged out by ugly men--dogged out pretty darn badly. One of my friends was conned and taken for a ride by a guy who not only was ugly but was also disabled. He was a con artist scamming several women at once including my friend. Despite his looks and disability, he was a smooth talker and was able to run game on women. This same friend would tell me that I should not care about looks when it comes to men. Men are men, and dang it, if things go south, I want to at least be able to say the dude was hot lol! I've dated nothing but really attractive men, and my friend has dated nothing but unattractive men. She is still just as single as I am and has had the same relationship problems I have had with hot guys (i.e. cheating, lack of a desire to commit). It doesn't matter.
This idea that the not-so-hot guy will treat a woman better and hot guys are dogs is a fantasy of not-so-hot guys who think they should still get hot chicks even though they aren't hot themselves.
It's quite offensive to speak like that about women Adi. I'm surprised, I didn't take you for that type of guy
I'm not the kind of person who mistreats women. Don't even think about me that way. I see the point for misunderstanding now. Please forgive me for the hurtful comment, I've deleted it.
Well, perhaps that's another reason why I'm alone. I need to learn how to come up with better witty phrases. I always come up with new phrases and it fails, but my friends manage to be so successful at it. There is a reason my SAT Verbal scores suck, LOL . It will get better with practice, bit I need a lace to practice first and I made a bad choice in location this time .
I'm much better off telling jokes in my native language than english.
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I'm not the kind of person who mistreats women. Don't even think about me that way. I see the point for misunderstanding now. Please forgive me for the hurtful comment, I've deleted it.
Well, perhaps that's another reason why I'm alone. I need to learn how to come up with better witty phrases. I always come up with new phrases and it fails, but my friends manage to be so successful at it. There is a reason my SAT Verbal scores suck, LOL . It will get better with practice, bit I need a lace to practice first and I made a bad choice in location this time .
I'm much better off telling jokes in my native language than english.
Don't worry too much Adi. It's better to make mistakes here on CD than with a real live girl.
Don't worry too much Adi. It's better to make mistakes here on CD than with a real live girl.
True. I'd never want to make someone feel bad in real life. I'd lose sleep over that and even apologizing does not make me satisfied. But once the damage is done, that's all one can do . We are not all perfect, but should try to do the best to apologize, rectify, and not repeat such mistakes. I've done the best I could to apologize and rectify the error.
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Great post. These not-so-hot, self-proclaimed nice guys have resentment issues toward women and often misogynists.
That's right, cupcake. Unattractive guys are always, ALWAYS misogynists. Keep telling yourself that, as you're evidently not self-aware enough to just admit that you're shallow and have done with it.
Women's shallowness truly is of epic proportions. I mean, think about it... they snap up all the attractive, successful guys; when those are gone, they batten on the attractive, less than successful guys, who inevitably screw them over; at this point, a few decide to settle for the less than attractive, successful guys, content in the knowledge that they can always have an affair or something somewhere down the road, to scratch that good-looking bad boy itch; and, finally, the women who remain are just SO disgusted by the thought of lowering their 'standards' to include less than attractive men who aren't millionaires, that instead they hijack the once-noble feminist movement and begin a constant and merciless media campaign to label all less than attractive, low-earning men as woman-haters and misogynists, thus justifying their preference for hyper-virile deadbeats.
That's right, cupcake. Unattractive guys are always, ALWAYS misogynists. Keep telling yourself that, as you're evidently not self-aware enough to just admit that you're shallow and have done with it.
Women's shallowness truly is of epic proportions. I mean, think about it... they snap up all the attractive, successful guys; when those are gone, they batten on the attractive, less than successful guys, who inevitably screw them over; at this point, a few decide to settle for the less than attractive, successful guys, content in the knowledge that they can always have an affair or something somewhere down the road, to scratch that good-looking bad boy itch; and, finally, the women who remain are just SO disgusted by the thought of lowering their 'standards' to include less than attractive men who aren't millionaires, that instead they hijack the once-noble feminist movement and begin a constant and merciless media campaign to label all less than attractive, low-earning men as woman-haters and misogynists, thus justifying their preference for hyper-virile deadbeats.
Go in fear, brothers. Go in fear.
Do you not think all human beings are shallow to a certain extent? Attractive people in general find it easier to find a mate and even jobs. Studies have shown that.
I don't think all men are misogynists and looks don't play into that. It's a seperate issue. I would say that unattractive people have more opportunity to feel bitter about the fact that it's harder for them to find a mate. Although if you look around, you will see plenty of unattractive people who are paired with others of varying degrees of attractiveness.
BTW, I am a feminist and I would never label low wage earners or unattractive men as misogynists. I personally think men on the whole are wonderful. It shouldn't be a battle between the sexes. No one wins then.
Great point. We women should just stick to dating ugly men because ugly men are virtuous, will never cheat, will never leave a pregnant girlfriend, and are all massively financially successful.
Don't get me wrong, ugly guys or guys with no nice hearts and even nice guys get out of line too. I'm not saying you gals should go for unattractive men, no. You should go for whatever makes you happy inside and fulfilled. All I know is that most women I know go for their ideal type of guy for the wrong reasons and never works out. All I know from observation and even with experience relationships based on chemistry and attraction to a greater degree do not last long and someone gets hurt. I have seen too much women put effort into relationships that do not go anywhere and generally takes a nose dive for the worse. Also how can you like someone that does not really like you back or claims too? Don't get me wrong if I was a really, really hot guy and highly desirable I would cheat all the time, and the woman that is in a relationship with me would be powerless to break up with me. I have seen a lot of this happen too even if the guy is broke, or has money. But I have to say that its worst if an ugly guy cheats which is unexpected compared to a cute guy cheats which is understandable.
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