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When I heard the girl's friend say I was ugly after I got her number, I threw it away and cut her off. Now, a break is needed.
But if the girl liked you enough to give you her number, why would she care what her friend is yapping about? You're going to punish her, and maybe yourself, because of the company she keeps?
But if the girl liked you enough to give you her number, why would she care what her friend is yapping about? You're going to punish her, and maybe yourself, because of the company she keeps?
Pretty much. If I dated her, I'd have to put up with her friends. No thanks.
But if the girl liked you enough to give you her number, why would she care what her friend is yapping about? You're going to punish her, and maybe yourself, because of the company she keeps?
The company she keeps is more than likely a reflection
of what the girl is like being with long term so he did right.
Yeah, I was going to take a break. But I wanted to be a good friend and attend a college party since I work a lot and play sports. When I heard the girl's friend say I was ugly after I got her number, I threw it away and cut her off. Now, a break is needed.
I know how you feel men have to put in too much effort to get one date and this is not counting all the rejections and lies that come with it so take a break but I would think about whether I would like to continue ths one sided dance.
If you're playing video games, why not try dating one of the girls that you meet there? That is if you're into MP games. I know lots of guys that are complete introverts that met a girl this way and you already have something in common. Nothing spells true love like getting into CounterStike and killing off a hot chick with a headshot...
If dating was everyone's strong suit...the "Relationship Forum" wouldn't be as active as it is.
Good luck!
When something is making you bitter, that's when you know you need to take a break from it. I don't want to be bitter towards women. That's all I'm doing.
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The company she keeps is more than likely a reflection of what the girl is like being with long term so he did right.
When I get to know someone well, I almost always find something very distasteful about their character or viewpoints. Sometimes its racism, or cruelty, or callousness. Sometimes it's inflexible religious views or misogyny, excessive matierialm or superficiality. If I cut all these people out of my life, I'd be pretty lonely. So I do keep them as company, but I try not to let them get away with saying things that I find offensive, and saying that someone is "ugly" is definitely something that I would find offensive.
If I was got a girl's number, then heard her friend say I'm ugly, I'd tell her later that I overheard her friend's comment and see what she said. Maybe she'll say "Oh yeah, that's Christine, and she can be a real jerk sometimes". I'd be okay going forward at that point.
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When I get to know someone well, I almost always find something very distasteful about their character or viewpoints. Sometimes its racism, or cruelty, or callousness. Sometimes it's inflexible religious views or misogyny, excessive matierialm or superficiality. If I cut all these people out of my life, I'd be pretty lonely.
Really? You have trouble meeting people that don't have these flaws? I will admit I meet them, but they're in no way the majority of people I meet.
When something is making you bitter, that's when you know you need to take a break from it. I don't want to be bitter towards women. That's all I'm doing.
That's definitely the right attitude. Anyone can get frustrated and bitter. If you have the self-awareness to recognize it, and realize that that's not how you want to be, you're way ahead of a lot of people that get bitter and then just roll with it.
A man who uses escorts has a higher chance of being better at sex than an older virgin. He probably wouldn't be as nervous when/if he ever gets into his first sexual relationship. On that basis I would say he is more attractive in a sexual way. There's been threads where both genders are not happy/impressed with having an inexperienced partner.
Again I really don't see the difference if a man chooses to pay for sex vs a man who's social skills allows him to sleep with numerous women. Most guys who sleep with a lot of women are liars in the sense of feigning interest at the beginning and then disappear once they get the sex.
Btw, I do agree with some of the other posters on here. Don't take this the wrong way, you've got to change your way of thinking. I know it is easier said than done, but honestly a lot of what you say is both self-defeating and self-fulfilling.
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