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Why is it so hard to do the obvious..........lose your virginity to someone below your ideal standard.
Some of the guys on here can't approach because she's so hot. Ok then pick a 5 and report back. Or go to a dive bar wait til 1 and take a cougar home. They will set you straight for life.
Some want to lose it to the love of their lives. Sign up for eharmony and report back.
Finding someone can be difficult sure. Over thinking and projecting make it difficult as well.
Those are your true options. An older virgin obviously doesn't even try to get laid, so the chances of dating one are near zero.
My options are to date guys that don't pay for sex or date guys that do pay for sex or be alone. I've always stuck to the first option and it was never difficult.
My options are to date guys that don't pay for sex or date guys that do pay for sex or be alone. I've always stuck to the first option and it was never difficult.
The only problem is is that a lot of men don't around advertising it, I think Foadi is probably the only dude I've ever heard of that openly admits it.
Most of the time you'll never know, and not saying your husband has, but a lot of men have used prostitutes.
It isn't called the oldest profession for nothing.....
The only problem is is that a lot of men don't around advertising it, I think Foadi is probably the only dude I've ever heard of that openly admits it.
Most of the time you'll never know, and not saying your husband has, but a lot of men have used prostitutes.
It isn't called the oldest profession for nothing.....
When men say things like this, it makes me think that they are simply trying to convince themselves that most men have used prostitutes so that they don't feel bad about using them themselves. No offense - but most men have not used prostitutes. If most men used prostitutes - it would be legal and more socially acceptable. And the men that I have had relationships have not used prostitutes. They are not liars and I would know if that is something that they would do. You are free to believe that I've been in relationships with men that have been to hookers - I'm okay with that.
When men say things like this, it makes me think that they are simply trying to convince themselves that most men have used prostitutes so that they don't feel bad about using them themselves. No offense - but most men have not used prostitutes. If most men used prostitutes - it would be legal and more socially acceptable. And the men that I have had relationships have not used prostitutes. They are not liars and I would know if that is something that they would do. You are free to believe that I've been in relationships with men that have been to hookers - I'm okay with that.
LOL... listen.. trust me, I meant no offense, I really like your posts, so I don't want to come off as being antagonistic toward you, I'm really not, and your right, a huge percentage of men don't and haven't used the pro's and if you know me at all, I'm not really down with hookers per se, my ego doesn't allow me to pay for a woman's affections , I've got into it with foadi on this very subject.
Again, I was in no way implying that your husband or any man you've personally been with has used them.
My point was simply this, You may never truly know because it's not something that is talked openly about with a woman and a man can gauge a woman's receptiveness to any given subject before he broaches or confesses to having done it.
Put is this way. A coffee shop meet up with a potential date, trust me, mentioning the use of hookers isn't going to make it in the rounds of small talk.
LOL... listen.. trust me, I meant no offense, I really like your posts, so I don't want to come off as being antagonistic toward you, I'm really not, and your right, a huge percentage of men don't and haven't used the pro's and if you know me at all, I'm not really down with hookers per se, my ego doesn't allow me to pay for a woman's affections , I've got into it with foadi on this very subject.
Again, I was in no way implying that your husband or any man you've personally been with has used them.
My point was simply this, You may never truly know because it's not something that is talked openly about with a woman and a man can gauge a woman's receptiveness to any given subject before he broaches or confesses to having done it.
Put is this way. A coffee shop meet up with a potential date, trust me, mentioning the use of hookers isn't going to make it in the rounds of small talk.
I have a feeling - and I could be wrong - but I would guess that there are signs or personality traits that men who pay for sex probably exhibit - but that the women that are married to them or in relationships with them either don't recognize or ignore.
But my point is that older virgins are scared of women, so the probability of ever dating one is very small.
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, I've got into it with foadi on this very subject.