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Am I the only guy that feels this way? Is there something wrong with me? My ex-girlfriends were the same way too, very attractive and always wanted me to be more intimate with them every day (sometimes several times a day).. is there something seriously wrong with me??
I was exactly like you before kids...now that my wife has popped out two of them, it's the opposite.
I am guy and I like intimacy as much as the next guy but I find it that my wife wants it 24/7. She is very attractive and gets hit on all the time. For me, though intimacy is part of a relationship but I wouldn't say it was the biggest part. I am not complaining because she is very good at it . I just don't want it every day and I feel weird about it because everyone I talk to and read about is that the guy is usually the one "wanting" it all the time whereas the girls don't. Am I the only guy that feels this way? Is there something wrong with me? My ex-girlfriends were the same way too, very attractive and always wanted me to be more intimate with them every day (sometimes several times a day).. is there something seriously wrong with me??
It's possible that she has a stronger sex drive than you. Which is normal. All are different. But on a chance that I am right, she might actually be needing attention rather than sex. Sometimes she would express that she needs sex because during sex is when you FOCUS on her only. But if you started to focus on her A LOT during the day, she might discover that she doesn't want sex as much as she thinks she does.
Women crave attention and crave to be desirable and to be wanted and to be special (and not in a sisterly way, but in a desirable woman kind of way). If you give her that outside of sex, it's possible that your sex acts will decrease.
Is she on the pill? Most birth control pills affect the woman's sex drive. For me, it diminshed it, for my best friend, it made her's sky rocket.
It could also be medication that you are on (if any). Check with your doctor about possible side effects. My late husband was on anti-depressants and it seriously effected his sex drive.
Women crave attention and crave to be desirable and to be wanted and to be special (and not in a sisterly way, but in a desirable woman kind of way). If you give her that outside of sex, it's possible that your sex acts will decrease.
This is very true. It is also the reason why poor "nice guy" patsies who shower their love interests with attention, never get laid.
A partner who demands to be intimate (not sexual) may be suffering from depression or self-esteem issues. Females know men aren't particularly intimate very often, and she should respect that. This is the way life is and level-headed females are able to deal with it in a proper manner.
Ummmm, not my experience and I've been in a lot of relationships in my life.
A successful relationship includes sexual intimacy.
Oh yes, bow to the man's needs. The woman's needs are obviously inferior to the man's.
It is most men dream of everlasting intimacy kinda of driving a Ferrari on the highway....... while most men gets to drive a Chevy.
Of course, it is demanding with the mega horsepower that goes vroom....vrooom....vroooooom. But once you lose it, you would be regretting for not keeping up with it.
So, be thankful for having a blissful and blessed intimacy.
This thread is over three years old now. I wonder how things are going? Are they still together, have things changed?
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