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Old 01-07-2015, 08:17 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 28 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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Ones that say "No Drama" kind of stuff. Srly? every relationship is gonna have drama along the journey. A little, occassional drama is healthy and is dealt in a mature, adult way
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Old 01-07-2015, 08:20 PM
 
Location: MA
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When they are religious!! Huge no!
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Old 01-07-2015, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Smoker. Conservative.

That's about it.
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Old 01-07-2015, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Oh, also somebody who doesn't bother to fill out the profile/says "If you want to know, just ask."
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Old 01-07-2015, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Swingers, poly and saying "no drama." It is a 90% guarantee anyone who says no drama has a lifetime supply of drama in their life.
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Old 01-07-2015, 09:28 PM
 
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Has kids
Hates animals
Looking for sex
Is married (yes a few even mentioned this)
Is much too old but makes it known they don't date women their age
Guys with shirtless photos in a bathroom (really guys this needs to stop)
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Old 01-07-2015, 09:53 PM
 
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High school drop out
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Old 01-08-2015, 07:15 AM
 
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Ones that say "No Drama" kind of stuff. Srly? every relationship is gonna have drama along the journey. A little, occassional drama is healthy and is dealt in a mature, adult way
Me too. It suggest bitterness that the person hasn't worked through. Date when your baggage is safely stored away, not before. Same with things like "NO LIARS!!!" who wants to deal with that guy's baggage, not I!
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Old 01-08-2015, 07:19 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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The phrases:

"I'm seeking a partner in crime"
"I'm as comfortable in jeans and a ball cap as I am in a dress and heels"
"I hate drama and don't want it in my life" (Defensiveness in general is a turn off: no liars, don't contact me if you want sex, etc etc)
"I'm really X years old, but I put Y years old because of the filters and because I look and feel much younger than my age! I can't relate to men my age and tend to get along better with younger men."

Talking about their relationship with Jesus or some other such crap. I don't date people that are superstitious or believe in the supernatural.
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Old 01-08-2015, 07:23 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Has kids
Hates animals
Looking for sex
Is married (yes a few even mentioned this)
Is much too old but makes it known they don't date women their age
Guys with shirtless photos in a bathroom (really guys this needs to stop)
This sounds good. Also for me.

doesn't share my religious views
looking to have lots of kids
looking for FWB situation
racist, toward any race
Anything poly, or open, I am strictly interested in monogamy
divorced - if he's in my age group, or near it and already divorced.....wow.

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Me too. It suggest bitterness that the person hasn't worked through. Date when your baggage is safely stored away, not before. Same with things like "NO LIARS!!!" who wants to deal with that guy's baggage, not I!
I figure when people say "no drama", they mean unnecessary crap, and childish issues. Like a poster here that claims she's spoiled, always nags and pouts when she doesn't get her way, dances on other guys to make her boyfriend jealous, then made he didn't come to claim her, but instead left her at the club. You know, petty HS crap is what I assume some mean with no drama.

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