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Old 01-21-2015, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Well I just meant that I didn't want anything serious and that I was only interested in having something physical with him.
OK That's fair, but don't you think you should meet him in person first, before sex?
He may be BUTT UGLY.
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:04 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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What is it about me that sounds immature?
Your posting history makes you sound like you've lived a very sheltered life, without much experience with people or places.
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:05 PM
 
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I've known of him for awhile now I've seen videos of him etc.

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OK That's fair, but don't you think you should meet him in person first, before sex?
He may be BUTT UGLY.
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:05 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I've known of him for awhile now I've seen videos of him etc.

This is getting better and better. Right on! Tell us some more!
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:06 PM
 
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I know and I really hate it I've actually had enough of all this I really want my own life now.

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Your posting history makes you sound like you've lived a very sheltered life, without much experience with people or places.
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I know and I really hate it I've actually had enough of all this I really want my own life now.
Slow down hot rod!
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:08 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I know and I really hate it I've actually had enough of all this I really want my own life now.
I would start right here: get a job, get out of your parents house, and don't tell nutjobs your sexual fantasies
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:09 PM
 
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I do have a job but I really wouldn't feel comfortable living alone.

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I would start right here: get a job, get out of your parents house, and don't tell nutjobs your sexual fantasies
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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I've been talking to this guy online since May he's in his 40's and I'm in my late 20's in a few months he and I live in different states. We've talked a lot but we are not in a relationship. He has mental issues and he spends a lot of time alone. I told him that I wanted to explore and try new things with him sexually. He called me a couple of times last night but I missed the call. He sent me a text letting me know who he was. I don't want to be in a relationship with him. I really wish he and I lived closer I think I would enjoy his company. I just don't know what to think I know I'm still really young. I know most people say older men only like younger women for sex etc. I guess I'm feeling conflicted I still live at home with my parents. I would like to meet him in person but I'm not sure what would end up happening. I suppose that people can have sexual encounters without any feelings developing. I'm hoping to move out in a couple of years by then I'll be in my early 30's. Maybe I am just over thinking this and should just forget about it. I know long distance relationships do not work out at all I don't even want to be in a long distance relationship honestly. I would rather just remain friends and then move closer but moving requires a lot of work and planning, money etc.
OP:

Why are you acting like this?

And exactly how are the two of you supposed to remain friends when you have already told him your sexual fantasies with him?

And exactly how are the two of you supposed to remain friends when you want to have sex with him without any commitments?
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Old 01-21-2015, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I do have a job but I really wouldn't feel comfortable living alone.
Why not?
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