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"um...done"??
lol...I used to get that a lot when single, after what started as a one nighter, or so I thought
4 girlfriends before my wife began as a one nighter...met at bar...and I ended up dating them for months, one for over a year...so first night sex doesn't negate more
but my answer is "did you just sex me because you were horny, or because you wanted to land me in your snare"...lol...their reply was almost always both
I got them impression the sexy time was a dry run (well not dry) and I passed some test...guys do it too...
I would think that having her ask ... Is it in yet? to be more troubling.
LOL. I asked that question with my husband while we're doing it and his reply was... really? My reply was.. well I don't know I think I'm numb down there I can't feel it.
I never ask what are we to my husband. I just told him what I WANT after we got intimate. He broke up with me. ONly to return. Wow he is still actually doing it now we're married.
LOL better i discuss this with someone before sleeping with them
You both deserve each other. She gave away the goods without making a deal first. You giving away the goods without realizing there was more to the deal involved.
Slept with this hot woman now asking me that goddamn it ���� got so mad
Let's face it, it's one thing to be sought after and desired and completely another thing to be valued. Personally I prefer to be valued and then maybe 'we' can "sleep" together.
Slept with this hot woman now asking me that goddamn it ���� got so mad
What is wrong with that? Maybe she is looking for something and doesn't want to waste her time. I know that for me having sex is an intimate thing and I need to know if the guy I am with is a risk for STD's sleeps around a lot, or if he is looking for something.
Yes, before you have sex simply make sure she knows lets just have fun and I am not looking for anything serious. If you don't you open yourself to questions. Duh.
Oh.. I think it IS, sadly. The thing is, it was addressed by the OP so casually as if something for some to automatically "sympathize with". When the heck is this scenario going to change, so that men stop leading females down a path and women stop thinking it is something more? Assumptions are made without discussing intentions beforehand, when becoming involved sexually.
It is the responsibility of both, the problem is, males may not get anywhere if being truthful, so there may be "acting" involved and the assumption that "both know what is going on in the other's head". Females are expected to be the ones "preventing themselves from these situations or being hurt"...but both sexes like touching -- it can go from "zero to 60", only for both to possibly form ideas regarding what it meant to do so.
I've mentioned, maybe there should be a "checklist", a contract for people to utilize at that stage, to check off and hand to each other, with statements such as:
* This is a one-night stand that this proposed partner is aware and in agreement of. ____
* It is clear that I do not want anything more from them than their body. ____
* I am not interested in this person beyond tonight or having a relationship with. ____
* I do not wish to have a relationship with anyone at this time. ____
* I have discussed with this person _________, how I would like to share in a "friends with benefits" experience, in which __________, agrees to a continued FWB agreement for however long we are both available and in agreement with. This person shall understand that they are not necessarily the only one I will be sharing in an FWB agreement with.
* Neither party is agreeing to anything while under the influence. ______. ______.
How do you think something like this might work?
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You know how women are.
