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Old 04-18-2015, 12:06 PM
 
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You tell the truth.

We are nothing. We are two adults who decided to sleep together.
If they want to push for a relationship you just straight up tell them it's too soon for you.

I should also point out there is a difference between causal dating and casually sleeping with people.
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Old 04-18-2015, 12:09 PM
 
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Girl/woman : so what are we now?

Slept with this hot woman now asking me that goddamn it ���� got so mad

Can you imagine the story she told?


....so I turned down 5 dates to spend the evening with this complete doofus, and when I checked to make sure he didn't think he had a chance of landing me as a girlfriend he loses his ability to speak English...
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Old 04-18-2015, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah you are making this up.
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Old 04-18-2015, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Was this a first date or a 5th? Did you want to see her again? Tell the truth. That's all. Just because a woman asks that question does not mean she's planning the wedding.
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Old 04-18-2015, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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I am thinking the OP has too many high quality problems.
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Old 04-18-2015, 02:04 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Girl/woman : so what are we now?

Slept with this hot woman now asking me that goddamn it 😡🔥 got so mad
Stop sleeping with women unless you can tell them where they stand as far as a relationship.
Simple, really.
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Old 04-18-2015, 02:10 PM
 
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um, why would you care if the 'hot chick' asked about your status after sex?

you're a guy, you have already won if you got the draws...

just marinate and play along

even if she said you were horrible in bed, you still won
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Old 04-18-2015, 02:21 PM
 
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Neither one sound too bright to me. Hopefully they used birth control.
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Old 04-18-2015, 02:36 PM
 
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So honey i need to know what are we now?

Thinkin: crud

Me: um well......

What are we hunn

Well we are um .....

Well im waiting

We are fwb

Im thinkin : omg seriously why ask that -_- we were having a good time

I dont think she took that well

You really should tell them before sex that you and she will be nothing but sex partners.

Then you really should quit "casually" dating, it appears it does not work well for you.

Stick with the sex only partners then you won't have to answer that question.
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Old 04-18-2015, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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um, why would you care if the 'hot chick' asked about your status after sex?

you're a guy, you have already won if you got the draws...

just marinate and play along

even if she said you were horrible in bed, you still won
he "won"...yeah, that's the immature and adversarial attitude that keeps the war between the sexes going.
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