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Old 06-21-2015, 05:13 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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An LTR sounds lovely, but there's just too many woman to be with.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:07 PM
 
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As I get older(41y/o) the more I have a desire to get into a long term relationship and I think more about marriage.

Now that I have a certain level of maturity and appreciation for certain aspects of life, I feel even more than ever it is very important to share my life in a serious long term relationship.


Anyone feel as if a long term relationship is the right fit for them also?
Yes, but I no longer think I'll get one.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:08 PM
 
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An LTR sounds lovely, but there's just too many woman to be with.
There are? Please point them out.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Pa
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There are? Please point them out.
Open your eyes!
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:23 PM
 
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As I get older(41y/o) the more I have a desire to get into a long term relationship and I think more about marriage.

Now that I have a certain level of maturity and appreciation for certain aspects of life, I feel even more than ever it is very important to share my life in a serious long term relationship.


Anyone feel as if a long term relationship is the right fit for them also?
I would suggest that if you are 41 and only now thinking about that life long commitment, you should carefully consider whether the lifestyle change will work for you. I married a man in his early 40s who had been playing the field for more than 20 years. He had no understanding of what it was to share a living space with someone - I mean truly share, not dictate what was his and where other people's stuff could go. He also wasn't ready to stop playing the game, and ultimately lost his family. When you find the right person, co-habit a space that is new to both of you - be prepared to compromise on almost everything.

I think that, as we age, a serious long term relationship becomes more attractive. This may be due to the fact that the older we get, the more vulnerable we are. Knowing that someone has your back, regardless, is a good thing.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:23 PM
 
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There are? Please point them out.
There are many somewhere. I don't know where either, probably somewhere along the coast. Cuz y'know, the beaches call all women to come.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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There are many somewhere. I don't know where either, probably somewhere along the coast. Cuz y'know, the beaches call all women to come.
The beach is cool.
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:36 PM
 
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Old 06-21-2015, 06:56 PM
 
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Open your eyes!
Okay, they're open.

Where do I look?
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Old 06-21-2015, 07:03 PM
 
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The beach is cool.
I wouldn't know. I'm too far inland to see any real beaches.
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