First time in a relationship with a man at 34.I am a guy (girl, attracted)
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I would give it at least a few months and even then I might just share with supportive close family.
Even with all the acceptance in the world this will turn your world upside down with no going back. Be sure ths is what you want long term, and not just now, while it is new and exciting.
I am not having a bisexual relationship.By all standards my current relationship would count as a gay monogamous one.I dont care how people label it.I am in love with that guy and he also seems to be with me.The most pressing issue for me here is that I dont know how I am supposed to manage this whole change in my life.Until a couple of months ago people knew me as a straight guy who was all about women.There is a transition here and I am not sure how I can handle it.My boyfriend is a different person with different experiences.Ok I hear what he tells me and I get how supportive he is but for me this is a pretty unique experience.He has been out as a gay man for a long time now so its not new for him.For me on the other hand this is a pretty complicated situation.How do I come out as?''Biromantic heterosexual''?No one will even get that.I dont plan to end the relationship.On the contrary I feel that he might be the love of my life so this is why I am freaking out with these things...
Why are you so eager to go from one "box" to another "box"? You were so, so straight...now you don't say you're bi but not exactly gay (only with him)...but you still want some definition.
It's only been TWO weeks! Can't you just slow down and experience it? It's like people so busy taking selfies that they can't even enjoy what they are actually doing - why do you have to tell anyone ANYTHING? With your last girlfriend did you tell your whole family after a couple weeks that you were a couple? What's the point?
Telling every one you are gay may have negative consequences eg; Be a shame if you tell your boss you are gay then he turns out to be homophobic and as a result you end up having to quit the job when he makes your work life a living hell because he doesnt like gays.
With your last girlfriend did you tell your whole family after a couple weeks that you were a couple? What's the point?
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No,but then again I havent felt so strong about my ex gf.It is not a matter of ''excitement''.I am not a teenage boy who gets excited over nothing.I havent experienced anything like this in my life and I know that sooner or later I will have to go public since I do not intend to break up with him.It's obvious that we have strong feelings for each other.I doubt this will change anytime soon.
Telling every one you are gay may have negative consequences eg; Be a shame if you tell your boss you are gay then he turns out to be homophobic and as a result you end up having to quit the job when he makes your work life a living hell because he doesnt like gays.
I am not gay.But everyone will perceive me as gay.Like I said I dont care about how they perceive me per se.The problem is how do I explain what is happening to me and be believable.I get that I will face the same stigma gay people face and yes it is making me somewhat anxious but my bf is supportive with this.
I am not gay.But everyone will perceive me as gay.Like I said I dont care about how they perceive me per se.The problem is how do I explain what is happening to me and be believable.I get that I will face the same stigma gay people face and yes it is making me somewhat anxious but my bf is supportive with this.
You are in a relationship with a guy. You are physically intimate with the guy. Technically that makes you gay, in a gay relationship.
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