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I know it would take a bit of time to move on & have the trust of dating someone again. It will not be right away . He was obviously attracted to me & he would always say how beautiful I am & can't wait to see me in person. I was not hiding my single life, I'm on FB & google & have a healthy lifestyle. He obviously was attracted to me since he felt, I'm young, attractive, qualified ( I have a Masters degree) , homeowner & successful. I wasn't after his money or anything. I have my own & obviously not after his wealth.
Do you mind me asking in the 2 years of flirting/naughty photos etc etc did you meet or see any other men? I'm sure you must be in a very good position to meet many or have many
...but obviously there's no better way to get your mind off it and quicker than with meeting someone else
I envy the people who are able to do that. I can't, unless it was just a fling. A long relationship takes me years to burn off, to the point where I can date someone new without the energy from my ex contaminating the environment.
I envy the people who are able to do that. I can't, unless it was just a fling. A long relationship takes me years to burn off, to the point where I can date someone new without the energy from my ex contaminating the environment.
Yeah a fling or just being around other women is my go to after a break up as it leaves emotions out of it
Do you mind me asking in the 2 years of flirting/naughty photos etc etc did you meet or see any other men? I'm sure you must be in a very good position to meet many or have many
Yes, I have met guys in Chicago or went on dates. Not saying I was entirely glued to this guy in DC. I'm single & moving to Chicago in early Spring of last year , the life was beautiful, night life, clubs, Chicago spring & summers are just amazing. So much to do, so much to hangout. I made new friends, hanging out , experiencing the best of Chicago, going on dates, it was all fun. I wanted to be single in Chicago & experience the best of the city , doing my own things by beach, nightlife..dancing..
But surprisingly, he is the one always in my mind since the communication never stopped. The connection grew & it came to a point where I started to feel for him at least by mid of last year.
He wasn't a nasty crazy guy sneaking into my personal life curious about my private life, stalking me or who I go out with, what I do blah blah..He wanted me to be happy, have fun & experience the best of everything in Chicago. that's something I really liked in him. But I would send him pictures every weekend when I go out, get ready . he would expect pictures !
Yes, I have met guys in Chicago or went on dates. Not saying I was entirely glued to this guy in DC. I'm single & moving to Chicago in early Spring of last year , the life was beautiful, night life, clubs, Chicago spring & summers are just amazing. So much to do, so much to hangout. I made new friends, hanging out , experiencing the best of Chicago, going on dates, it was all fun. I wanted to be single in Chicago & experience the best of the city , doing my own things by beach, nightlife..dancing..
But surprisingly, he is the one always in my mind since the communication never stopped. The connection grew & it came to a point where I started to feel for him at least by mid of last year.
He wasn't a nasty crazy guy sneaking into my personal life curious about my private life, stalking me or who I go out with, what I do blah blah..He wanted me to be happy, have fun & experience the best of everything in Chicago. that's something I really liked in him. But I would send him pictures every weekend when I go out, get ready . he would expect pictures !
Yeah that's good and it's precisely what I was getting at
It's clear you are very able to meet other men and now you feel this about him are not to keen on him shall we say LOL you will find it much much much easier to get over him
This guy is nothing but a voyeur, like a pimp who gives attention to girls to obtain what he wants. In this case hundreds of nude photos for his porno collection. He was using you and probably others as well.
You shouldn't assign emotions to him like guilt and certainly not honor. Decent men don't ask for things like this from women and if you complied you're very naive. He knew what he was doing and hopefully you are catching on to what you were dealing with.
This won't be the last time you will hear a man isn't married. Young good looking girls find this quite often so beware. Usually it's used to get a girl into bed.
Personally, I would be extremely mad at being fooled this way, and I would be worried those photos aren't all over the net or someplace else in public.
Janet, I got the feeling from reading the initial post that you were busy and essentially blowing him off the last two years. So why all this crying and carrying on now? And a DUI over this?
Honestly, I don't believe any of this, but keep on. What do I know?
Yeah but your break up would be with a real woman who you actually have met!!!!
Yeah there is that I suppose LOL.
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