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Old 07-21-2016, 09:43 PM
 
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No, and this has been discussed many times on this forum.

Men these days, especially the ones that post on this forum section, are so weak and timid and afraid of their own shadows, that they would never in their lifetimes have the guts to ask any girl out. So a girl asking THEM out is a more than welcome change.

New Trend: Men Want YOU to Hit on Them?
I guess you can always leave this forum if what other dudes are saying bothers you so much. Good luck Raena!
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Old 07-21-2016, 09:52 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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No, and this has been discussed many times on this forum.

Men these days, especially the ones that post on this forum section, are so weak and timid and afraid of their own shadows, that they would never in their lifetimes have the guts to ask any girl out. So a girl asking THEM out is a more than welcome change.

New Trend: Men Want YOU to Hit on Them?
Men are still asking women out FYI. seriously all the best to you Raena.
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Old 07-21-2016, 10:19 PM
 
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No, and this has been discussed many times on this forum.

Men these days, especially the ones that post on this forum section, are so weak and timid and afraid of their own shadows, that they would never in their lifetimes have the guts to ask any girl out. So a girl asking THEM out is a more than welcome change.
sorry to disappoint you, but i ask girls out all the time, at least i did until i went on dialysis.
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Old 07-22-2016, 12:41 AM
 
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I'm just curious if a guy I'm interested in would be flattered or think I'm a crazy.

I went to highschool and college with him and noticed on fb he is still single.

I recently went out with a guy friend at the casino's and everyone thought we were a couple. It boost my confidence that I still got it.


Guys would you think horrible things or think wow she's bold I like some one who is assertive?
It depends on the guy. I personally don't mind.
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Old 07-22-2016, 12:49 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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we really need to get you into therapy, and turn down this rosey outlook of yours



i hope things go well for you, that way you dont have to fall back to my level



talk a bout a great day turning bad quickly!!
Haha LOL..... Nooooooo!........ Speaking to you lovely Americans everyday is therapeutic enough for me to keep sane
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Old 07-22-2016, 04:29 AM
 
Location: Eugene, Oregon
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To the OP, I would recommend to just contact him in some way, to let him know you're still around and remember him. But meet with him somewhere just as an old friend. Don't put him on the spot by suggesting that it's a man/woman type of date. If that kind of relationship has a possibility with you, you'll both recognize that fairly soon after meeting and the suggestion to do something together will be a mutual one between you.
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Old 07-22-2016, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Pa
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To the OP, I would recommend to just contact him in some way, to let him know you're still around and remember him. But meet with him somewhere just as an old friend. Don't put him on the spot by suggesting that it's a man/woman type of date. If that kind of relationship has a possibility with you, you'll both recognize that fairly soon after meeting and the suggestion to do something together will be a mutual one between you.
Yep I did. We are going out for drinks as old classmates.
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Old 07-22-2016, 04:02 PM
 
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Sounds like a good reason to try OLD?
Oh yeah, OLD. I'm doing that too. There are a lot of similarities between real life and OLD here, because there aren't that many more people online than real life. The "matches" I do get paired with are usually between 70 and 100+ miles away, so that's something I guess. The women I do try to communicate with aren't usually very receptive of my message(mind you I'm NOT vulgar in any way and respectful in every message I've ever sent, and I've even been blocked before I've even sent a message with some women.). The very, very few who have messaged back either never message back after the first message or flake if it goes anywhere.

If anything, OLD makes me feel even more isolated in who I am as a person. These sites even try to pair me with big time religious profiles and I'm not anywhere close to being religious enough to go to church every Sunday or 3 days a week or whatever. I know I'm not that terribly unique as a person, but I feel totally alone in many ways.
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Old 07-22-2016, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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Yep I did. We are going out for drinks as old classmates.
Great to hear! Have fun.
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Old 07-22-2016, 04:14 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yep I did. We are going out for drinks as old classmates.

That's good. Just go and have fun and don't worry about whether or not it goes anywhere. Just have fun and who knows what may happen.
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