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You're comparing 2 different statements I'm confused. That quote was to express how I don't think him having his shirt on during sex alters the experience physically, for me at least. But yes I want to take a shower with him. I want him to be comfortable taking his shirt off during sex to feel more intimate, not because I think it effects his performance
Nobody honestly thinks a shirt affects performance.. It does however create a physical barrier to intimacy ~ not just sex ~ intimacy . Look at the facts. . . Here you are 9months in and you can't even talk to your own boyfriend. You only text him about it ~ Now ~ after joining a forum, putting him on blast and subjecting him to the jokes and criticism of complete strangers. For cryin out loud girl, handle your business. . . . . . He's overweight - he's not physically deformed, missing limbs, in a wheelchair, covering up traumatic burns, cancer, or a crippling disease. He's merely a "victim" of his own neglect. There are people in this world with real deal afflictions who can't 'hide behind t-shirts' and yet they still face the world and get naked during sex..! ~ ~ ~ Enough with the excuses already.
You are right.
We only know one side of the story.... he side.
He may leave the shirt on just to tick her off, or just so she is not in control, or it reminds him of a past sexual experience, or because he gets awful goosebumps if even slightly chilled. A thousand things are possible.
Which is why the OP needs to TALK - not text - to him about it.
And maybe a breakup will result, maybe not.
Lmao. You're just making this dude sound like an even bigger chump.. I agree tho: talk to him!
Just because someone is insecure with the way they look with their shirt on, does not mean they are fat or are not taking care of their body.
Doesn't matter. Over time this is going to get really old and be a huge turnoff. Taking care of one's body or not, the biggest downer is the insecurity.
Doesn't matter. Over time this is going to get really old and be a huge turnoff. Taking care of one's body or not, the biggest downer is the insecurity.
I never said that insecurity wasn't a problem.
I said that poster implying that a dude is fat and doesn't take care of his body because he won't remove his shirt, is ignorant at best.
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Doesn't matter. Over time this is going to get really old and be a huge turnoff. Taking care of one's body or not, the biggest downer is the insecurity.
True, we have to assume that if he's 6' 215# he's not a muscular/fit 215#. He should address that, it only gets harder as you get older.
And that will, or should, help with the insecurity.
Give fat boy THE BOOT and find a dude who knows how to take care of his body...
I suppose in your mind that means becoming one of those who a obsessed on depilatory acts?
Face it, we rug backs are more natural. We WILL inherit the earth! Mahahahahaha!
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~ ~ ~ Enough with the excuses already.
I agree tho: talk to him! 
