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Old 01-12-2018, 12:24 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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OP come back and update us with how you are handling this situation.
The poor OP may feel like this isn't the most hospitable forum, to men in his situation....
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Old 01-12-2018, 08:22 AM
 
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Thanks for not raking me over the coals like most others seem to be doing. Look, I fully admit I messed up. I will also say I got out of a bad divorce a little over two years ago. That hasn't helped things. But we do talk and I will talk to her and see how she feels. As for buying her newer stuff, I guess I just wanted her to have the best and treat her well.
OMG, your ex must be laughing her ass off! I'm sorry to say but your peer reputation as a mature thinking man is completely trashed now. There's no coming back from this one, friend.

Curious, do you have any kids? Are your parents living? What do they say about this arrangement?
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Old 01-12-2018, 10:29 AM
 
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omg, your ex must be laughing her ass off! I'm sorry to say but your peer reputation as a mature thinking man is completely trashed now. There's no coming back from this one, friend.

Curious, do you have any kids? are your parents living? What do they say about this arrangement?
lol! Yeah, OP; have you taken your "friend" to meet your parents yet?
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Old 01-12-2018, 10:50 AM
 
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OMG, your ex must be laughing her ass off! I'm sorry to say but your peer reputation as a mature thinking man is completely trashed now. There's no coming back from this one, friend.

Curious, do you have any kids? Are your parents living? What do they say about this arrangement?
I have two daughters (22, 20) and a son (18).
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Old 01-12-2018, 10:54 AM
 
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Why did you ignore the other, questions, OP? I sense that your situation may bring you a tad bit of shame.
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Old 01-12-2018, 10:57 AM
 
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Why did you ignore the other, questions, OP? I sense that your situation may bring you a tad bit of shame.
I'm curious as to whether the daughters ever got a new car gifted to them by their dad. How can the daughters get some of that generosity action? Or has their dad advised them to find their own sugar daddies?
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Old 01-12-2018, 11:01 AM
 
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I'm curious as to whether the daughters ever got a new car gifted to them by their dad. How can the daughters get some of that generosity action? Or has their dad advised them to find their own sugar daddies?
They already have jobs and are doing well. My daughters and son have met her and while my son doesn't really care, my daughters have shown great displeasure even my oldest saying it was "gross".
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Old 01-12-2018, 11:17 AM
 
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Well, that was an important piece of information. The fact that your short involvement with this woman is straining your relationship with your own children. I wish you the best of luck in repairing that down the road.

Can you answer the question of why a veterinary medical student is working at Wal-mart and spending her days on the phone instead of in class and labs?

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Old 01-12-2018, 11:21 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Can you answer the question of why a veterinary medical student is working at Wal-mart and spending all her time on the phone instead of in class and labs?


She is definitely not in school to be a veterinarian. No way. No how.
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Old 01-12-2018, 11:55 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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Wow! I was being manipulated by someone I dated during the spring of 2016. So, I can relate to this guy, and honestly, I actually feel sorry for him. I am relieved and fortunate that I am not in this situation anymore.
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