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yes, im dreading christmas (we are going over there to spend christmas with my boyfriends family), it will be the first time we meet his sisters baby. i'm sure its going to bring up really weird emotions seeing him with his sisters baby.
we are emotionally and financially ready... i can;t tell you this enough
You are not financially ready, you've made that quite clear. You're far from financially ready. Neither of you is emotionally ready, either. He's still barely out of childhood and teen years, himself. He's abusive toward you. That's not the sign of a mature person.
Find a purpose in life for yourself, OP. Having a baby will not magically give your life purpose and meaning. It's not the baby's job to make you happy. Consider trying to get more education, to improve your life. If you're expecting a baby to make you happy, you're FAR from emotionally ready.
You are. You're the Bulgarian's default choice, not Ms. Right but Ms. Right Now.
It's extremely immature and selfish to expect a baby to fill the void of unhappiness in your life. The VERY last thing you need right now, and with this guy, is to get pregnant.
So you want a 23yr old male to have a child with you and the fact that he's telling you he's not ready...it bothers you.The gut isn't ready.23 is way way too young to be having a child anyways. Children are not cheap.It's a long-term commitment and it's always good to at least have a partner who is ready instead of only 1 partner who is ready.
I think you should just find someone who is ready like yourself to have a child.It sounds like this is something that you're ready for now and he is not.You can't force someone to feel how you do about something like this.When you 1st met,,,was this a conversation you both had what if and when you wanted to have children?
So you want a 23yr old male to have a child with you and the fact that he's telling you he's not ready...it bothers you.The gut isn't ready.23 is way way too young to be having a child anyways. Children are not cheap.It's a long-term commitment and it's always good to at least have a partner who is ready instead of only 1 partner who is ready.
I think you should just find someone who is ready like yourself to have a child.It sounds like this is something that you're ready for now and he is not.You can't force someone to feel how you do about something like this.When you 1st met,,,was this a conversation you both had what if and when you wanted to have children?
She's been saying that since she was 20, though--just out of her teens. She's far from ready. I get the feeling she just doesn't know what else to do with her life, and having a baby is something adults do, and she's "officially" an adult now, so that's what she thinks she wants.
I see you're conveniently ignoring all of the posts where people are asking you how you could possibly want to start a family with an abusive boyfriend who has been treating you like crap for the past 5 years. If he's not yelling at you or throwing stuff at you then he's ignoring you and playing video games. And you want to bring a baby into that situation? Are you serious right now?
Your boyfriend always makes sure you take your BC pills with you when you go away for a few days. But, even at home, does he watch to make sure you are actually taking them? Had a friend who would flush her pill so Hubby would see it was gone out of the package when he checked. Hubby was pretty mad at first when she told him she was pregnant and what she had done. But now that little boy is Daddy's little buddy and Daddy takes him everywhere.
Your boyfriend always makes sure you take your BC pills with you when you go away for a few days. But, even at home, does he watch to make sure you are actually taking them? Had a friend who would flush her pill so Hubby would see it was gone out of the package when he checked. Hubby was pretty mad at first when she told him she was pregnant and what she had done. But now that little boy is Daddy's little buddy and Daddy takes him everywhere.
no he doesn't check at home at all...
he only seems to check whenever were away from home i.e on holiday or a weekend break
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Didn't really realize this OP had posted this before. There is no helping people that want to play the poor, poor me drama card. 
