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OK, here's the deal. Now that I'm in my 40s, I can take the long view on this. Looks don't last. They don't. Imagine him 50 pounds heavier and balding. Now, on the other hand, personalties don't change. And if you wind up having a couple of kids with this dude, he's bound to cheat and disappear and he sounds like the gaslighting type. I cannot imagine this guy helping out with diapers and nighttime feedings. Using your words, he'll wind up as a much less attractive middle-aged guy who still has a "horrible personality." Do yourself a favor and forget this guy.