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Old 10-14-2022, 03:30 PM
 
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That could happen, he is only a couple hours away driving from me. At the same time I’m wondering if he is even interested. I’ve gotten a lot of mixed reviews here lol.

If he was interested im wondering if he would’ve said more? Him also sayin he was reserved is mixed because I didn’t know if he meant back in college days she was reserved or if he is now. I also didn’t ask for clarification and now I think it might be to late to ask
Yeah, I'd let that conversation go.

How often does he contact you? Once a day? Once a week? Once a month?

That would show interest level. Also, does he initiate contact? Or is it back and forth between the two of you?
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Old 10-14-2022, 05:23 PM
 
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Yeah, I'd let that conversation go.

How often does he contact you? Once a day? Once a week? Once a month?

That would show interest level. Also, does he initiate contact? Or is it back and forth between the two of you?
Couple of times a week & he usually initiates the convo. I started to take notice of it that’s when I started wondering if he was interested & not flat out saying it
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Old 10-17-2022, 09:14 AM
 
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Couple of times a week & he usually initiates the convo. I started to take notice of it that’s when I started wondering if he was interested & not flat out saying it
Wait you say he is only a few hours away? That's not bad.
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Old 10-17-2022, 02:15 PM
 
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Wait you say he is only a few hours away? That's not bad.
Without heavy traffic about a 4 hour drive
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Old 10-17-2022, 02:39 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Without heavy traffic about a 4 hour drive
I moved in with my bf a few months ago. Our distance was 2,5 hours at night and 4-5 hours if we drive during the day (Los Angeles traffic is horrific).

It can work if it is temporary.
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Old 10-19-2022, 11:06 AM
 
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There's this guy who I went to college with years ago. We started following one another on Instagram a little after college. I havent seen him in person since, we live in different states.

Recently he has been direct messaging me a lot. Commenting on the things I post starting small conversations here and there.

I assumed he was doing this because he is interested? Why else would someone who I havent seen in years all of a sudden be very active in my message box? I got brave one day and told him I had a crush on him back in our college days. Him and I had a mutual friend and were at a few events together.

His response was asking me why I didnt say anything and I told him back then I was more reserved as a person. He said he was as well and now I'm wondering what it means if anything.
He's obviously interested. Try to set something up with him. I'm old fashioned though I think he should ask you.
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Old 10-19-2022, 03:33 PM
 
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I agree. For now I will wait until he sets something up for us. See if he is willing to make the drive down to me
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Old 10-30-2022, 02:56 PM
 
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Update: we are hanging out in a few weeks I’m very excited but I’ve noticed that he will read my messages and not respond for hours/days. Once took 3 days to respond to a message. It makes me feel like he isn’t interested
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Old 10-30-2022, 03:38 PM
 
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Update: we are hanging out in a few weeks I’m very excited but I’ve noticed that he will read my messages and not respond for hours/days. Once took 3 days to respond to a message. It makes me feel like he isn’t interested
You’re very excited about someone who really isn’t showing much interest?



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Old 10-30-2022, 05:14 PM
 
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Update: we are hanging out in a few weeks I’m very excited but I’ve noticed that he will read my messages and not respond for hours/days. Once took 3 days to respond to a message. It makes me feel like he isn’t interested
Or he can't be messaging you in front of his girlfriend.
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