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I am interested in him. Would it be bad if he did that?
I think I would pick a city that is roughly half-way between his location and yours, look for a nice hotel in that city, and check what the rates are for a weekend.
Then message him and invite him to meet you there for a weekend.
I would be bold, in the middle of a chit chat I would say "Jeeez, it would be so nice if you would just live next door, we could go to dinner now and talk person to person." or something the like.
Who knows, maybe he will come visit. Or maybe he has intentions to move.
He lived in the same state as me for college and moved a few states over after. He actually did mention in conversation how he wants to move back but with inflation he isn’t too sure when that would happen
I'd be a little cautious. I doubt he had these deep feelings for you and finally decided to act on them after years. I'd be concerned that he was "on the prowl" and going through his contacts looking for an easy score. Unless you're ok with that.
They live in different states. How easy can it be to score if you're living in different states? But THAT said OP, are you really interested in trying to start something with someone who lives so far away?
He lived in the same state as me for college and moved a few states over after. He actually did mention in conversation how he wants to move back but with inflation he isn’t too sure when that would happen
So, what, he's going to move in with you then? lol ..... ?
I think I would pick a city that is roughly half-way between his location and yours, look for a nice hotel in that city, and check what the rates are for a weekend.
Then message him and invite him to meet you there for a weekend.
That would be quite a leap to go from flirty Insta DMs to "hey, let's meet up and share a hotel room for a weekend". I feel like there should be some intermediate steps first.
He lived in the same state as me for college and moved a few states over after. He actually did mention in conversation how he wants to move back but with inflation he isn’t too sure when that would happen
So he does want to move closer to you, but he lacks motivation.
He is asking if you would be willing to date him if he did move closer.
They live in different states. How easy can it be to score if you're living in different states? But THAT said OP, are you really interested in trying to start something with someone who lives so far away?
It's a numbers game. He's probably playing a dozen chat buddies at once, not betting on any particular one panning out but just hoping one or two of them does.
I doubt he's looking for a "relationship". It doesn't sound to me like they ever were really friends so much as acquaintances who had common friends. Did they ever have a date? Or even spend an evening together as friends, just the two of them?
They live in different states. How easy can it be to score if you're living in different states? But THAT said OP, are you really interested in trying to start something with someone who lives so far away?
I’ve never tried it so I wouldn’t be against it
It's a numbers game. He's probably playing a dozen chat buddies at once, not betting on any particular one panning out but just hoping one or two of them does.
I doubt he's looking for a "relationship". It doesn't sound to me like they ever were really friends so much as acquaintances who had common friends. Did they ever have a date? Or even spend an evening together as friends, just the two of them?
We didn’t have a date but would we need to have a date in the past in order to have interest in one another now? People fall for people they meet online everyday who they don’t have any connection or mutual friends with let alone seen one another in person prior to wanting to date another
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