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I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
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Girl, do you have a screw loose? Sounds to me as if you need therapy. Going for the married ones is nothing but a heartbreak waiting to happen..either for you, him or his wife and kids. There are PLENTY of single men who are available. Stop this self destructive behavior immediately!!
A loose screw? It sounds like her screws are toally missing!
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Originally Posted by FlightAttendant
Girl, do you have a screw loose? Sounds to me as if you need therapy. Going for the married ones is nothing but a heartbreak waiting to happen..either for you, him or his wife and kids. There are PLENTY of single men who are available. Stop this self destructive behavior immediately!!
I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
You have serious self-esteem issues and frankly, are a bad person to pretty much be a serial "other woman".
Bluntly, get some counseling....or just live with the inevitable continuous train-wreck that is and will continue to be your life.
I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
Yes you are crazy and you need to seek therapy. A lot of people like you like to take what others have just for the heck of it. You're toxic.
i have not always gone with my feelings. i think the part in star wars where luke turns off the computer because a voice tells him trust your feelings ---while flying down a ditch at 3000 mph ---is a big mistake.
I posted a while back about contacting an ex lover who I found again on face book. we broke up because the guilt was killing him as he was married with children, but I found out from his face book page he was now divorced. well I didn't bother contacting him, but now I find myself involved with another married man. it's only been two weeks but I find my asking why? why am i always attracted to men I can never have totally.
Look at your screen name. You're crazy. And you're tragic. You obviously have enough self-knowledge to understand your own self-destructiveness. Then why don't you do something about it? I mean, how easy can it be to not return the guy's phone calls.
After all, if a married man divorces his wife and then marries his mistress, all he's doing is creating a job opening.
I worked with a girl who was the other woman. She was sleeping with our boss while his wife was pregnant with their first baby. What a horrible person. The only people in the whole thing who were innocent were the wife and the baby.
Both Theresa and our boss were super paranoid and he was very possessive of her. She would complain to me that he always thought she was cheating on him (Which she was, she knew he was married and she could never have him, so she went around with other guys while she was seeing this married man). She was stupid, he was stupid and they both wound up getting what they deserved. She was fired, he was almost cast out of his VP position and he lost his wife and baby.
sounds like a great love story. Hope you enjoy yours!
As for me, I will enjoy my happily married husband who isn't a sleaze ball who would sleep with any tramp who opens their...
You're probably attracted to emotionally unavailable men in general; married men being a subset of them. It's likely due to your own fear of intimacy and engulfment.
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