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Both partners should be proficiently versed in the art of cunnilingus/fellacio.................................... .........................hohohoho
I totally agree...both partners should be willing to give and receive. I enjoy both. I was reading a book earlier (The Book of Vice pretty darn funny) and it was talking about how a woman can tell if her SO is going to be faithful (if only I had this book earlier this year...but live and learn). Apparently according to research in humans and other animals, the larger a man's "jewels" are the more likely he is to not be monogamous. If you want a man that will be faithful you need one with smaller than average jewels.
If you REALLY cared about the other person, why wouldn't you want to learn about their body and what is mind-blowing for them? The guys I've been serious about I've wanted to learn what makes them tick, and then do that. Mostly because I cared about them, but also because they gave tit for tat, which is always NICE!!!
So, if the sex is bad due to a lack of motivation on your partner's (or your) part to make it better, than yeah it is probably time to say "good-bye".
thank you for seeing the point I tried to make to Chessie, Live!
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Originally Posted by LiveTodayLez08
I was saying that lesbian sex CAN be bad but I am not saying it is ALWAYS bad.
I've had some mind blowing sex before with another woman and I've also had a so-so experience. I've only slept with two women...which is somewhat conservative considering I know other girls my age who have been with 3 or 4 times that amount.
As I've said in other posts, I had an ex who would do the complete opposite of what I liked. There was only one time when I can say the sex was good but besides that...eh.... It was okay.
I've also heard from other lesbians that their sexual encounters with certain girls were not all that great but I've also heard others rave and rave about how some girl was the **** in bed.
I think regardless of sexual orientation, everyone can have a bad sexual experience. One partner may not be willing to learn the other partner's wants and needs...or one partner may not be as into it as the other...etc, etc...etc.
As far as my attraction to women.....it goes a lot deeper than sex. I just feel more comfortable around women and I've always had deeper connections with them. It just feels "right"/"natural" for me to be with another woman. I felt more myself with women than I ever did with guys. I dated a few guys in my middle school days but once I figured out I was a lesbian, it really felt natural and spoke to why I always had deeper connections with girls and wasn't all that boy crazy like so many of my friends.
I agree, when I'm with someone I care about, I like to know what pleases them, and let them know what I like, etc.
If they're not even willing to learn or be open to new things, it's a waste of time.
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Originally Posted by ArmyPoohFan317
If you REALLY cared about the other person, why wouldn't you want to learn about their body and what is mind-blowing for them? The guys I've been serious about I've wanted to learn what makes them tick, and then do that. Mostly because I cared about them, but also because they gave tit for tat, which is always NICE!!!
So, if the sex is bad due to a lack of motivation on your partner's (or your) part to make it better, than yeah it is probably time to say "good-bye".
If you care about someone, you're going to give them a chance to improve it. But, open and honest communication is a must.
Sex is too big of a part of the relationship, it holds the intimacy between two individuals. The intimacy and connection is what makes the difference between friends and significant others. If that bond isn't there, than all that is left is just a really good friendship (and sometimes a wandering SO). If both parties are willing to keep it spiced up and/or improve the sex... AWESOME!
The problems are.. if one partner knows the other needs the sex improved, but doesn't care enough to really improve it. (yes, can speak from experience)
I'm sure a friend wouldn't do that. However, I'd never call again either. There is someone out there to creatively tameyour desires. Never settle unless you are exhausted with pleasure.
I'm sure a friend wouldn't do that. However, I'd never call again either. There is someone out there to creatively tameyour desires. Never settle unless you are exhausted with pleasure.
It depends on why it sucks. Method.......size.......
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(yes, can speak from experience)
