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Old 05-25-2009, 04:02 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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"Scheduling everything around a game" is NOT an "outside interest". It's an obsession. Sports freaks are not my type. I mean, I love football, I really do. And I enjoy watching an occasional game, and the playoffs. But that's it.


So once again it's about what you want and everything should be about YOU, YOU

 
Old 05-25-2009, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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So once again it's about what you want and everything should be about YOU, YOU
No, she's absolutely right. You had a problem - we gave you solutions. Now you want to argue with everyone?

Are you starting to notice something about women in here???
 
Old 05-25-2009, 04:14 PM
 
Location: Valkenvania
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Yeah aren't r/ships about give and take and negotiating? It should be about both people. Anyone who is like "It's my way or the highway" is gonna have problems getting someone to put up with that. All people have needs and wants that need to be accomodated sometimes, that is just how r/ships are.

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No, she's absolutely right. You had a problem - we gave you solutions. Now you want to argue with everyone?

Are you starting to notice something about women in here???
 
Old 05-26-2009, 11:30 AM
 
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Read the Art of Seduction you will amazed. There is some truth to what you say and this book is dedicated to the thought behind it. It is not a book about physical come ons it is a book about attraction.
I will tell you one thing though, when two people get togther that are actually both interested in a relationship magical things can happen. Most of the time depsite what people say they are not truly interested in relationship in its purest form. They are usually intersted in getting something in particular that can't be gotten externally through another person. So, ignoring some people while be attracted to the unavailable is self gratifying. If I pursue someone who is obvisouly not intersted I get to say I am "talking to some", but I dont really have to do any work. Being actively involved in a relationship would actually require my time and attention. So, if I were honest with myself I would just wait until the person I deemed worthy of my time and attention to come along. Or I would just stay out of the game and work on myself... Not many people are mature enough for this one.
 
Old 05-26-2009, 11:32 AM
 
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Yeah aren't r/ships about give and take and negotiating? It should be about both people. Anyone who is like "It's my way or the highway" is gonna have problems getting someone to put up with that. All people have needs and wants that need to be accomodated sometimes, that is just how r/ships are.

That's the thing: The OP isn't relationship material. He thinks that women suppose to bend to his every will.

He can take being a sports fanatic to being with a woman anytime.
 
Old 05-26-2009, 11:34 AM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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That's the thing: The OP isn't relationship material. He thinks that women suppose to bend to his every will.

He can take being a sports fanatic to being with a woman anytime.
Yeah, cuz there's nuthin' hotter than a guy watching other guys in tight pants running around a field and slappin' each other on the ass!
 
Old 05-26-2009, 12:00 PM
 
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Usually when i ignore women they ignore me i dont see thsi working,maybe if youre some amazing looking guy that a women will put up anyhting to be with but an average guy isnt getting away with ignoring a women,shes nto getting turned on by that if shes sane..
 
Old 05-26-2009, 12:22 PM
 
Location: pittsburgh
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They want you more if you are a guy who

1. Don't return her calls right away
2. Don't leave Voicemail messages
3. Don't respond to emails quickly
4. Too busy to go out on a date with them
5. Hard to get in touch with


Guess these things make a guy more attractive and unpredictable
i guess this is why im single
cause i return calls, emails and im not to busy
and i am easy to get in touch with
 
Old 05-26-2009, 12:44 PM
 
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They want you more if you are a guy who

1. Don't return her calls right away
2. Don't leave Voicemail messages
3. Don't respond to emails quickly
4. Too busy to go out on a date with them
5. Hard to get in touch with


Guess these things make a guy more attractive and unpredictable
Games are for kids. Any man or woman who falls for these games is pathetic. If someone treats you like this and you find them more attractive as a result, you need professional help. Gather up some self-respect and find someone who appreciates you enough to make time instead of playing hard-to-get.
 
Old 05-26-2009, 01:04 PM
 
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That is strange. Those are all turns offs and red flags for me.

I like predictable and reliable. Those are green flags.

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Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy View Post
They want you more if you are a guy who

1. Don't return her calls right away
2. Don't leave Voicemail messages
3. Don't respond to emails quickly
4. Too busy to go out on a date with them
5. Hard to get in touch with


Guess these things make a guy more attractive and unpredictable
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