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Old 05-26-2009, 07:37 AM
 
Location: I never said I was perfect so no refunds here sorry!
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Sorry to say......
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Westchester County
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It is kind of interesting how the usual females are absent from this thread.
My thoughts exactly. While keeping up with the same theme of "reverse" advice "Give her a good cry and she'll understand how it makes you feel." Also from the same thread "Be a bit stricter with her."
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:22 AM
 
Location: Westchester County
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I forgot one more:
All the smart and wise women that I know are 100% commited to their partners and wouldn't dream of perving on other boys (whilst in a relationship) where as it's always the dummys that think it's alright and come back with the same old excuse! 'we're women!'
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:26 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Honestly I don't mind females who are into porn. Means you can watch it together.
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:32 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Is she watching Lesbo porn? Maybe she's switched sides and prefers fur burgers instead Coney Dogs!
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:33 AM
 
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I don't asume the be a love god however I am willing to do what ever is needed.
"Do what ever is needed?"

What an awful attitude to have towards sex. That sounds like the source of your problem, right there.
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Old 05-26-2009, 08:35 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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A couple of pressing questions....Was his receeding hairline severly advanced by his marriage? are they $$$ signs in her eyes?
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Old 05-26-2009, 09:06 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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If your wife is refusing sex with you but watching porn, you need to ask her why. She obviously hasn't lost interest in sex since she's watching porn, but she's lost interest in having it with you. If she refuses to tell you what the problem is, then it's time to move on to a woman who isn't playing games.
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Old 05-26-2009, 10:25 AM
 
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She is a woman. She probably has a rational justified reason for watching porn while you are at work. Nothing to worry about since she is in NO danger of being hooked on porn, or thinking that you should look like, or perform like the men in those movies. As a woman she is also ENTITLED to have sex when SHE FEELS LIKE it anyway, so wanting to have sex more often is rather arrogant on YOUR part. Now what I just wrote what SOME of the women in this forum have written on other past threads
LOL. If the sexes were reversed, the men on here would say, its perfectly natural for to watch porn all day men are visual. "He" dosent want to have sex with you because "she" gained weight or dosent keep herself sexy enough.



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you seriously need to have a long talk with her and find out why she feels this way. Yes it will probably be your fault (don't be suprised you're a man and therefore you are ALWAYS held accountable for both your actions and hers as well.) If talking does not help go see a marriage counselor (one you BOTH can talk to, and one who remains NEUTRAL.)
Now thats not bad advice.
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Old 05-26-2009, 10:28 AM
 
Location: southern california
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counseling asap.
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