Wife refuses sex but watches porn when I am away. (movies, marriage)
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For the last two years of a five year marriage my wife has refused to have sex any more than once a month or less. When we do have sex she just lays there and says hurry-up, get it over with. Now I have notice that she is looking at porn while I am at work. I am very frustrated.
You must suck in bed? Maybe you should watch some porn and pick up some tips?
It has never been a problem before, I don't asume the be a love god however I am willing to do what ever is needed. We do every thing together we used to but now with out sex.
She is a woman. She probably has a rational justified reason for watching porn while you are at work. Nothing to worry about since she is in NO danger of being hooked on porn, or thinking that you should look like, or perform like the men in those movies. As a woman she is also ENTITLED to have sex when SHE FEELS LIKE it anyway, so wanting to have sex more often is rather arrogant on YOUR part. Now what I just wrote what SOME of the women in this forum have written on other past threads you seriously need to have a long talk with her and find out why she feels this way. Yes it will probably be your fault (don't be suprised you're a man and therefore you are ALWAYS held accountable for both your actions and hers as well.) If talking does not help go see a marriage counselor (one you BOTH can talk to, and one who remains NEUTRAL.)
The majority of your posts have related to the problems you have with your wife where your sexual relationship is concerned and it appears from them that the warning signs were there even before you were married. I can't imagine why you would continue on without getting some counseling. Posting on a forum obviously isn't helping the situation and isn't going to result in some big miracle. Good luck and I hope you do something constructive soon so the rest of your life isn't a loveless frustration. Cheers!
Just a tip for your "wife". I currently have a VGA lead running from my laptop to my 42 inch TV. Viewing the porn on the TV really adds to the experience. Its something she could look into doing if she hasn't already.
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She is a woman. She probably has a rational justified reason for watching porn while you are at work. Nothing to worry about since she is in NO danger of being hooked on porn, or thinking that you should look like, or perform like the men in those movies. As a woman she is also ENTITLED to have sex when SHE FEELS LIKE it anyway, so wanting to have sex more often is rather arrogant on YOUR part. Now what I just wrote what SOME of the women in this forum have written on other past threads you seriously need to have a long talk with her and find out why she feels this way. Yes it will probably be your fault (don't be suprised you're a man and therefore you are ALWAYS held accountable for both your actions and hers as well.) If talking does not help go see a marriage counselor (one you BOTH can talk to, and one who remains NEUTRAL.)
It is kind of interesting how the usual females are absent from this thread.
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