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What if her boyfriend's siblings are on Facebook, and he doesn't want them tattle taling to his parents about dating a woman from a culture they don't approve of? My boyfriend's little sister lives on Facebook and analyzing all the friend networks of her contacts. She's quite the little snitch and gossip monger. And her love for Facebook is part of why my boyfriend and I aren't on it. Shrug.
You sound like a decent person. Just run. Do it now. Get out of the relationship slowly but looking down the road, he will likely not include you in every facet of his life.
BangBangShrimp, I understand that this is the direct, no-nonsense approach, but I don't want to have a "where is our relationship going?" conversation with him. His actions alone tell me where it's going. I'm willing to give it a bit more time to see if things get better (not regarding Facebook, but just things in general), but I just don't feel that getting into a serious discussion about where we're headed is the way to go.
then please, chill out and allow him space...why is it some people feel like they've got to own others? Every individual needs they're own space and privet quality time even if that means a weekend away with the boys, or a few hours to walk along the beach at times. You can't smother people and you have to allow them...they don't deserve anything else.
in the meantime, you need to get involved in your own life and stop depending on another human being to make you happy. It doesn't work like that...
Think about this....
If your like this now, think about how God awful smothering you'd be if you were married, and start working on your own problems. It isn't his job or anyone else's job to make you happy, but yours. And if your not happy and secure within who you are, your going to make others unhappy.
In otherwords, we are how we think ourselves to be.
Let this poor guy alone, if he's the type to cheat, nothing you can do or say is going to change that and you'll find out soon enough.
No one in here can say if he is or isn't. It is something you are going to have to find out...and if he is, then your better off, and it wasn't meant to be, and it also means, you chose a person who is not compatible to your feelings and beliefs...don't compromise who you are to simply have someone in your life....what I'm saying is...grow from every experience, and don't depend on anyone for anything, including your happiness. Be self sufficent, and if you are, you'll chose a mate more wisely.
For now, I believe you need to do some self examanimation, and get out there and experience life, do things on your own, by yourself....so that you get to realize who you are, and stand strong to your own personal institutions.
Then and only then, will you be ready for a relationship...
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Run, run, run
