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No. I am a faithful, loving wife. I simply had no where to turn so I thought I would put my situation out there in hopes that someone could relate. There is no excuse for cheating, NONE... I have heard that some couples work through it. I just have no idea how...
Maybe the prescription of viagra is for you, since he's to embarrassed.
I am his WIFE not his girlfriend or chick on the side. There is NOTHING that he should keep from me. I tell him everything. Whatever it is, he knows it 1st... We are NOT having any sex at all unless he initiates it and he is not initiating very much. This man didn't even kiss me on New Years, he disappeared at midnight for over 30 minutes. When I found him, he was texting. He was annoyed that I found him. He said, "Can't I say "Happy New Year" to my family?" To which I replied, "Sure but not before kissing your wife..." He waved me away... We have not spoken one word to each other since that exchange. We have slept separately also. The Viagra discovery was the night before New Year's eve. He tried to brush it off by saying he was embarrassed but when I asked him why he is carrying it around in his work bag, he could not answer... It is the lying and the secrets that really bother me. Each time he lies, I lose more trust in him.
I think it would be interesting if "your friend" showed the prescription bottle, with someone else's name on it to the police or sheriff. He, and whoever he got the pills from, could get a "stiff" penalty!
Travel bag??? If my husband went on travel trips, and I happen to run across this in his bag, you can guarantee, I would automatically think he had someone else, during his trips! If it was for me, why in the hell would it be in his travel bag?
It could be if you were going on a camping trip together...
Have much good Health & Happiness in 2014 darlin'.
This thread from 2009 was resurrected today and is very confusing because some people are replying to the OP and some to the user who reactivated the thread today. The thread is now closed. Sorry, folks.
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If my husband went on travel trips, and I happen to run across this in his bag, you can guarantee, I would automatically think he had someone else, during his trips! If it was for me, why in the hell would it be in his travel bag? 
