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Old 07-14-2009, 10:56 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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The good thing is he's been promoted at work...and should have no problem paying child support for all those kids. Get a lawyer and get busy on the paperwork.

 
Old 07-14-2009, 11:32 AM
 
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OK have just read that which changes my above post. Yeah likely to be seeing someone else. Relationship on the rocks big time.
Yeah, I'm trying to visualize what my wife would have done to me had I ever said something like sex daily or I will cheat on you.

Yet, here we have Mrs. Babymachine *wondering* if she's being cheated on?

Almost seems a little fantastical, hence my comment about 2 sides to every story.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Yeah, I'm trying to visualize what my wife would have done to me had I ever said something like sex daily or I will cheat on you.
That would have been pretty much the end of the story if I were the wife. I would have never made it to the travel bag and the Viagra. What kind of ultimatum is that? "Do what I want or I'll sleep with someone else" good luck with that
 
Old 07-14-2009, 05:39 PM
 
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That would have been pretty much the end of the story if I were the wife. I would have never made it to the travel bag and the Viagra. What kind of ultimatum is that? "Do what I want or I'll sleep with someone else" good luck with that
Yeah, this thread is tingling my bull**** senses. Something is REALLY REALLY wrong in their relationship and at this point if I believe what I've read it's with both of them.
 
Old 07-14-2009, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Orlando, FL
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Yeah, this thread is tingling my bull**** senses. Something is REALLY REALLY wrong in their relationship and at this point if I believe what I've read it's with both of them.
LOL I thought I was the only one who said that
 
Old 07-20-2009, 12:34 PM
 
Location: San Diego
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Some men are very smart. I assume the man would have been already having ED problem, but by having another guy's name on it, no one is ever going to doubt he is suffering. Thus he would be saved from embarrassment. He would have never dreamt, his wife would soon discover his weakness. poor guy!
 
Old 08-08-2013, 03:13 PM
 
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I found not only viagra but also condoms in my boyfriends case...I am just keeping quite for now and waiting. Theres nothing wrong with having them...it's another thing using them. If I find one missing in the future I will want to discuss it with him.
 
Old 08-08-2013, 03:55 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ta da! He's a cheat. She doesn't need a bat, she needs a bulldog divorce attorney.
Whether or not she has any proof or a confession from him about cheating, she should see a lawyer anyway, and hand him the bill, unless she pays her own bills. In any case, she should see a lawyer, and see how he reacts to that news. Then see if he's any more willing to provide an explanation.


Geez, all these guys who think their wives are stupid, and that they'll be able to fool them for years without being discovered. *shakes head*
 
Old 08-08-2013, 04:02 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I see alot of people jumping to conclusions, saying he is seeing someone else. Its possible he was having performance issues with his wife and was taking them for her. No-one mentioned this in the intial dozen posts or so, so thought I would. It could be that simple. Then again there are many other possiblities and without knowing more details, its tough to be conclusive.
You know, with 6 kids, it seems like he wasn't too concerned re: performance issues. Besides, the way he blew up when she found the pills, accused her of snooping, and denied anything does tend to point toward guilt on his part. She needs to see a lawyer to get some leverage. Or suggest they go to couples counseling, and then see how how reacts to that.
 
Old 08-08-2013, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I don't think it's exactly a secret when a man crosses over to Viagra.
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