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Are you a white girl?
The Asian community can be judgmental about everything. They probably wouldn't even talk to me knowing I like dudes.
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Originally Posted by Raena77
There can be disapproval from the other races as well...My Korean boy friend's parents thought for the longest time when I came over with his other friends whom were Asian, white, and black that I was dating his other white friend. Little did she know until later I was dating her son. Lemme tell ya awkward....we heard it for weeks...why can't you be with a nice Korean girl. After awhile it didn't last some Asian men want submisive girlfriends and wives. This is Not me.
For every constipated white guy who hits the roof when he sees a white woman with a black man, there is an uptight black guy who is just as angry about seeing a black woman with a white man. It cuts both ways with the narrow minded. Seeing how you are in a prodominantly black area (Jamaica Queens) it stands to reason you two would get "noticed". A white guy by himself over there probably draws attention to himself, never mind one walking hand in hand with a black woman. Don't let it bother you.
You just listed legitimate discrimination complaints. Why are you being so unhelpful today?
I'd be angry about everything you just listed.
Thing is, its more than likely something else that causes those problems other than her being black.
People stare because Im black.
No, people are staring because your fly is open or maybe they think you look like Halle Berry.
They take longer with my order because Im black.
No, your order is taking longer because you order lasagna which has to be baked; or you ordered soufle that has to be cooked perfectly.
People give me a hard time when Im in Brooklyn.
No, you walk around trying to be "Hard" or with an attitude and bad energy about yourself and maddog people when they look at you.
Point Im trying to make is that she seems to be the type that blames EVERYTHING on her being black. Thats all.
Borrrrrrrrrring. Us minorities know the difference between giving us a hard time and any other variety of reasons or mistakes or accidents. If you speak up do the people give you "the run around", are they rude, do they avoid eye contact, do they get sarcastic if you question them, how are they treating the other customers, etc. After they insult you with a backhanded comment do they say "just kidding" or "I'm only joking". That isn't right. That is BS.
Us minorities know what we are doing. You are not helpful at all. Thanks.
You are not a minority so you will be defensive and protective of unfair treatment like you are now.
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Originally Posted by LaoTzuMindFu
Thing is, its more than likely something else that causes those problems other than her being black.
People stare because Im black.
No, people are staring because your fly is open or maybe they think you look like Halle Berry.
They take longer with my order because Im black.
No, your order is taking longer because you order lasagna which has to be baked; or you ordered soufle that has to be cooked perfectly.
People give me a hard time when Im in Brooklyn.
No, you walk around trying to be "Hard" or with an attitude and bad energy about yourself and maddog people when they look at you.
Point Im trying to make is that she seems to be the type that blames EVERYTHING on her being black. Thats all.
The whole white woman being a prize thing is a little overrated if you ask me.
And I'm a white dude.
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There can be disapproval from the other races as well...My Korean boy friend's parents thought for the longest time when I came over with his other friends whom were Asian, white, and black that I was dating his other white friend.
Little did she know until later I was dating her son. Lemme tell ya awkward....we heard it for weeks...why can't you be with a nice Korean girl.
After awhile it didn't last some Asian men want submisive girlfriends and wives. This is Not me.
