Does your husband or wife (or SO) have access to your personal email? (girlfriend, lover)

[Stranded and Lonely]

Do you know the passwords of the email addresses your spouse uses for personal correspondence with friends or relatives (or lovers?)?

They say that many people who are having an affair start it all through flirty emails.

Would you be embarrassed if your spouse read every email you wrote or recieved in the last 12 months? What would they think of your emails?

[TKramar]

Even after my last relationship was over, I had no questionable website visits or emails to be concerned about for at least six months.

[Seattleite61]

My husband and I both have access to each other's email accounts, but neither of us look unless the other asks us to check something... He can read anything I've ever wrote, if he wanted, and no, I would not be embarrassed!

[pitt_transplant]

Yes, and I look. I don't care. I am a total snoop and totally honest about it. And yes..I crave to go through purses to see what color lipstick you keep and other stupid useless info like that. I am just naturally curious about everything. Including the s.o.'s email.

Would I be embarassed about what I had to write...Well these was one thing I discussed with him and posted about. I would not be embarassed but I would not want him to be upset about being talked about. Nothing I wrote about anything would be a shocker. I can't stand the anxiety of not having the cards on the table so to speak.

[andreaspercheron]

I gave mine access but he never remembers the passwords. If he wanted to check my email any random day that would be fine, no secrets here. I can have access too but who cares? I'm not insecure in our relationship.

[akck]

I'd probably be more embarrassed about some of the things I've written here.

Email-wise, I know her non-work email passwords since I set it up for her. She doesn't know mine. The only emails I might be embarrassed about are the ones that get through the spam filters, but not really.

[bobman]

i've nothing to hide.

most of my emails are to her anyway.

anything "dodgy" i look at on the net, she knows about, and is happy enough with.

at the moment, she doesn't know my password, but that's only because she's never asked.
i'd have no qualms about giving her it, if i needed my email checked, or whatever.

[TKramar]

As a matter of fact, she still has my pin number for my ATM card. My ex, that is, who hasn't been a girlfriend in well over a year.

But she's not going to steal from me either. Just not that way.

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Stranded and Lonely

Do you know the passwords of the email addresses your spouse uses for personal correspondence with friends or relatives (or lovers?)?

They say that many people who are having an affair start it all through flirty emails.

Would you be embarrassed if your spouse read every email you wrote or recieved in the last 12 months? What would they think of your emails?

People with nothing to hide, hide nothing.

We know each others passwords. I never have anything to say to anyone else that I wouldn't be able to say to him

[Twinkle Toes]

Originally Posted by Stranded and Lonely

Do you know the passwords of the email addresses your spouse uses for personal correspondence with friends or relatives (or lovers?)?

They say that many people who are having an affair start it all through flirty emails.

Would you be embarrassed if your spouse read every email you wrote or recieved in the last 12 months? What would they think of your emails?

I have nothing to hide, and I would not be embarrassed if he were to see my emails, but NO, he does NOT have my passwords, nor does he have access to my emails. He respects my privacy, and I respect his.

What would he think of my emails? Well, he'd probably just roll his eyes and say "oh brother!"