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Why would a 21 year old woman be attracted to a 49 year old man?
The only reason I can come up with is that the girl probably wants a "sugar daddy."
The girl is reasonably attractive, and has very suave and alluring mannerisms which she seems to know how to use all too well.
Each time that man communicates with her, she is overly kind and attentive, and makes direct eye contact with him each and every time. Instead of referring to the subject as "sir" she simply refers to him as "you" followed by subtle phrases which can get a man's mind going (e.g., "oh, I'm sure you can get creative with that." "Hotter is sometimes better.") All the time, she's making direct eye contact.
Why would a 21 year old woman be attracted to a 49 year old man?
The only reason I can come up with is that the girl probably wants a "sugar daddy."
The girl is reasonably attractive, and has very suave and alluring mannerisms which she seems to know how to use all too well.
Each time that man communicates with her, she is overly kind and attentive, and makes direct eye contact with him each and every time. Instead of referring to the subject as "sir" she simply refers to him as "you" followed by subtle phrases which can get a man's mind going (e.g., "oh, I'm sure you can get creative with that." "Hotter is sometimes better.") All the time, she's making direct eye contact.
Ladies, gents...feel free!
From the way you wrote it, It sounds like she wants something. I'm sure there are ways that a 21 year old woman might be attracted to a 49 year old man. But that attraction most likely will be on a personality level, unless that 49 year old man just happens to look incredible fine.
For a myriad of reasons: smart, educated, witty, experienced, well traveled, well dressed, acts like a gentleman, provides romance, etc., etc. - all those things her peers fall short on.
Why would you conclude she's looking for a sugar daddy, in other words you think she's a gold digger. Possibly she's attracted to the security, stability and maturity level an older man has to offer.
Why would you conclude she's looking for a sugar daddy, in other words you think she's a gold digger. Possibly she's attracted to the security, stability and maturity level an older man has to offer.
That is 28 years we're talking about. I date older myself, but that is a huge gap even for me. If we're talking about 21 / 38 or such it would most probably come down to what you wrote, but 21/49 is a very very big gap right there.
Why would a 21 year old woman be attracted to a 49 year old man?
The only reason I can come up with is that the girl probably wants a "sugar daddy."
The girl is reasonably attractive, and has very suave and alluring mannerisms which she seems to know how to use all too well.
Each time that man communicates with her, she is overly kind and attentive, and makes direct eye contact with him each and every time. Instead of referring to the subject as "sir" she simply refers to him as "you" followed by subtle phrases which can get a man's mind going (e.g., "oh, I'm sure you can get creative with that." "Hotter is sometimes better.") All the time, she's making direct eye contact.
Ladies, gents...feel free!
If I was 49 I wouldn't have anything to do with a 21 yr old "woman".
Heck, I'm 40 and I wouldn't date a 21 yrs old woman.
I would wonder what is "wrong" with a 21 yr old that would date a 40+ guy. To me it would seem like daddy issues or looking for a sugar daddy.
Who are we to determine what's right for anyone else.
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Originally Posted by Friday night
That is 28 years we're talking about. I date older myself, but that is a huge gap even for me. If we're talking about 21 / 38 or such it would most probably come down to what you wrote, but 21/49 is a very very big gap right there.
It will be in the future, but for the time being it's just fine!
Aye it is!
But the question i would like to ask is what prevents her from finding the same in a 30-40 year old man? Now say a 35 year old man will most of the time be quite mature, and experienced and stable in his life at that point, just like the 49. But unless that 49 year old gentleman have an incredible fine body, i don't see why she would pick him. It just sounds fishy!
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Originally Posted by virgode
Who are we to determine what's right for anyone else.
S/He did ask for our opinions, and i really don't think people understand how big of a gap we're talking about there.
But the question i would like to ask is what prevents her from finding the same in a 30-40 year old man? Now say a 35 year old man will most of the time be quite mature, and experienced and stable in his life at that point, just like the 49. But unless that 49 year old gentleman have an incredible fine body, i don't see why she would pick him. It just sounds fishy!
And who said the gentleman in question didn't have a fine body? Even if he doesn't, fine bodies are not the first item on everybody's list.
Oh, yeah - and the definition of "fine" varies quite a bit.
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