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I agree with Onglet. The only (white) guys I see insisting on foreign women or Asian women are the ones that can't find a decent white women to agree to date them.
White guys that appreciate the beauty in all races and nationalities of women tend to be more confident and probably get more dates.
Hi vicket,
I always get a chuckle at that. People are different, and if you like that difference, then there can be a lot more it is somewhere else. When people talk about Eastern Europe or Asia, the bristling defenses of women defending their turf go up. That is understandable. However when France or Italy comes into the picture, as under a Tuscan Sun, then suddenly we are in a trashy romance novel.
Birthday Girl?
Or Under a Tuscan Sun(aka porn for women)?
Traveling singles in Italy? You can bet its about American female singles. The photo of course has the American blond lusting after a Latin man fondling veges and surely considering loosening a top button to add to his selection. They try to cover their tracks with a nice little token paragraph at the end.
Now the reason I know woman don't like this idea is because men who travel internationally, and can dabble in speaking a few foreign languages, needs brains and money which bites into the desirable man pool even if some "losers" also play in that pool. Women don't care what "losers" do. If there is any rule one can depend upon is women don't care what men they don't want do. The problem is they fear it just like any "red blooded" American man fears a cultured Latin smoothly. We know it works.
I agree with Onglet. The only (white) guys I see insisting on foreign women or Asian women are the ones that can't find a decent white women to agree to date them.
White guys that appreciate the beauty in all races and nationalities of women tend to be more confident and probably get more dates.
What the hell, its the internet, so here is my non-PC take on a few interracial pairings. This might make a few people mad:
Top white men - by top I mean a combo of being financially sound, tall, good looking, or at least having a big enough penis that he's really confident - can date anyone they want. They date the best of the best, minorities they date are always the best looking and never fat. But when it comes to settling down, they typically do it with white women. This may make minorities mad, but at the end of the day it is 100% normal to envision one's own race when envisioning a long term partner.
Lower end white men who exclusively date Asian women do so because they can't get a white woman of the caliber they would like. (There is a cross-over with white men who date Russians etc, those are the low end white men you see ranting on websites called "American Women Suck!")
Black men who exclusively date white women are doing so for a status jump. There are two groups:
Lower end black - dates fat white women
Top Black - dates better looking white women
Black men who exclusively date Asian women are also seeking a status jump, one that won't anger their mothers, sisters, etc. These guys are almost always Top Black... in fact I've never seen a Lower end black man with an Asian woman. (the Wesley.)
White women who exclusively date interracially seem to be very practical. Two camp:
Fat (or ugly) white women, can get a status-seeking low end black man who has a hot body but can't even come close with a white man.
Average+ white women can and do scoop up status-seeking well-off minorities. (These are the ones who make black women mad... the female white 5 who takes the black 10 when the black woman is a solid 8.)
Asian women who exclusively date white men are doing so for status. She's easy to pick off, her man is very mediocre looking, has a dull personality and a crappy job. If you ask her why she dates white men, she won't respond, "Because white guys turn me on." Instead she will give you a full on angry racist rant about the men of her own race.
Black women who exclusively date white men are also doing so for status. She too is likely dating a real dud, just like the asian woman. However if you ask her why, she will shrug and claim its just random coincidence. "I don't know, it just turned out that way!"
Asian men who exclusively date white women are usually Asian-americans who have a view of themselves "not really being Asian." These are the guys who say, "Well I'm different than other asians because I grew up in SoCal and I surf." They are burying their racial identity, probably because the media portrays them as being highly feminized. The result is, they hit the gym or are quick to talk about how they are different. Or both.
Latino/Hispanics, I won't go into, the NY Puerto Rican is completely different that the FL Cuban or the TX Mexican. Too broad to discuss now.
Finally, please not I am speaking about the mindset of people who exclusively date outside of their race. People who date a variety of different races are not what I am discussing.
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Originally Posted by MontanaGuy
thinkinaboutit wrote:
That's crazy, there's so many beautiful black women out there. You don't find Halle Berry attractive?
I wish they put Halle Berry in a can, cause I spread her on my toast.
That woman is very attractive.
She is also of mixed race, not black.
So what exactly is your point? Are you suggesting that a woman whose parents are both black can't be attractive and that it's just the white ancestry of Halle Berry that makes her so appealing? I just picked her at random without evaluating her ancestry.
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Originally Posted by MontanaGuy thinkinaboutit wrote:
That's crazy, there's so many beautiful black women out there. You don't find Halle Berry attractive?
I wish they put Halle Berry in a can, cause I spread her on my toast.
That woman is very attractive.
She is also of mixed race, not black.
You are also splitting hairs. Her father is African American, her mother is not. Most African Americans are of mixed race. Big deal. She says she's black, and most of America, especially Black America, says the same.
You are also splitting hairs. Her father is African American, her mother is not. Most African Americans are of mixed race. Big deal. She says she's black, and most of America, especially Black America, says the same.
or is it just the one drop of blood principle?
To me, Barack Obama is mixed race, not black nor white.
You are also splitting hairs. Her father is African American, her mother is not. Most African Americans are of mixed race. Big deal. She says she's black, and most of America, especially Black America, says the same.
Hi Lucario,
Accuracy is not splitting hairs. Some light skinned "blacks" with essentially one African grand parent are considered "black" which is idiotic. Appeal to majority does not change the silly Euro-centric one drop rule.
Accuracy is not splitting hairs. Some light skinned "blacks" with essentially one African grand parent are considered "black" which is idiotic. Appeal to majority does not change the silly Euro-centric one drop rule.
But most "blacks" are of mixed ancestry. I look more or less like an average black guy. But my ancestors come from four continents. I am no different than most black Americans or Latinos........I know one drop is Eurocentric, but in America it has served to unite a very diverse population.
What the hell, its the internet, so here is my non-PC take on a few interracial pairings. This might make a few people mad:
Top white men - by top I mean a combo of being financially sound, tall, good looking, or at least having a big enough penis that he's really confident - can date anyone they want. They date the best of the best, minorities they date are always the best looking and never fat. But when it comes to settling down, they typically do it with white women. This may make minorities mad, but at the end of the day it is 100% normal to envision one's own race when envisioning a long term partner.
Lower end white men who exclusively date Asian women do so because they can't get a white woman of the caliber they would like. (There is a cross-over with white men who date Russians etc, those are the low end white men you see ranting on websites called "American Women Suck!")
Black men who exclusively date white women are doing so for a status jump. There are two groups:
Lower end black - dates fat white women
Top Black - dates better looking white women
Black men who exclusively date Asian women are also seeking a status jump, one that won't anger their mothers, sisters, etc. These guys are almost always Top Black... in fact I've never seen a Lower end black man with an Asian woman. (the Wesley.)
White women who exclusively date interracially seem to be very practical. Two camp:
Fat (or ugly) white women, can get a status-seeking low end black man who has a hot body but can't even come close with a white man.
Average+ white women can and do scoop up status-seeking well-off minorities. (These are the ones who make black women mad... the female white 5 who takes the black 10 when the black woman is a solid 8.)
Asian women who exclusively date white men are doing so for status. She's easy to pick off, her man is very mediocre looking, has a dull personality and a crappy job. If you ask her why she dates white men, she won't respond, "Because white guys turn me on." Instead she will give you a full on angry racist rant about the men of her own race.
Black women who exclusively date white men are also doing so for status. She too is likely dating a real dud, just like the asian woman. However if you ask her why, she will shrug and claim its just random coincidence. "I don't know, it just turned out that way!"
Asian men who exclusively date white women are usually Asian-americans who have a view of themselves "not really being Asian." These are the guys who say, "Well I'm different than other asians because I grew up in SoCal and I surf." They are burying their racial identity, probably because the media portrays them as being highly feminized. The result is, they hit the gym or are quick to talk about how they are different. Or both.
Latino/Hispanics, I won't go into, the NY Puerto Rican is completely different that the FL Cuban or the TX Mexican. Too broad to discuss now.
Finally, please not I am speaking about the mindset of people who exclusively date outside of their race. People who date a variety of different races are not what I am discussing.
I spent three years in Mannheim, Germany with the military. I saw that many black men in the military married german women, while i was there.
I spent three years in Mannheim, Germany with the military. I saw that many black men in the military married german women, while i was there.
I wasn't speaking about Germany, only what I have observed in the US.
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