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Old 07-29-2011, 01:01 AM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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No.

 
Old 07-29-2011, 01:25 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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No, probably not.
 
Old 07-30-2011, 07:45 PM
 
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Why would a gay date a tranny?
 
Old 11-03-2011, 03:02 PM
 
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Default Dating a transgender

Too much is made of gender one way or the other. I see nothing "wrong" with a straight guy dating a transgender person and think it's more wrong to realize that we live in a society where a question like this would even have relevance. I mean why do you date? Is it just because you want sex? Sex is great a lot of times but it's better to be with someone because they make you laugh or feel good about yourself when you are with them. I have never been in anything but natal male-natal female relationships but my neighbors are a gay couple and they seem every bit as happy as I am -- because they are happy with each other.

We all start out the same and we all have the bilogical capability of ending up the same. So why must it ever be necessary to even question this?
 
Old 11-03-2011, 03:19 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Originally Posted by DanaArden View Post
Too much is made of gender one way or the other. I see nothing "wrong" with a straight guy dating a transgender person and think it's more wrong to realize that we live in a society where a question like this would even have relevance. I mean why do you date? Is it just because you want sex? Sex is great a lot of times but it's better to be with someone because they make you laugh or feel good about yourself when you are with them. I have never been in anything but natal male-natal female relationships but my neighbors are a gay couple and they seem every bit as happy as I am -- because they are happy with each other.

We all start out the same and we all have the bilogical capability of ending up the same. So why must it ever be necessary to even question this?
But we DIDNT stay the same. For a reason. And no. I wouldnt date a tranny. Too many real women out there to have to do that. But que sera!
 
Old 11-03-2011, 04:04 PM
 
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hmm seems someone is flirting with the idea of dating a tranny. Oh well, to each his or her own, but the answer from my corner is a resounding HELL NO!!! Even if the pool of real women was down to 0, I will PASS, GLADLY!!!!
 
Old 11-03-2011, 04:12 PM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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Meh..Ill try anything once.
 
Old 11-03-2011, 05:52 PM
 
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I can't even imagine dating at all, after being married all my adult life. But I loved this article in O magazine about a straight woman who fell in love with a transgendered man (he had gone from being a female):

Falling in Love with a Transgender Man - Oprah.com

I think it shows what true love is all about....
 
Old 11-03-2011, 05:52 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Absolutely not.
 
Old 11-03-2011, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I honestly don't think I would. I certainly don't have a problem with trans-gender people and I'm sure I'd have no problem with a friendship, but if I knew he/she was originally a man I think I'd always feel like I was dating a man. And since I'm not attracted to men I can't wrap my brain around that. At the very least it would always be in the back of mind, and I doubt that would make for a healthy relationship.
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