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Old 04-28-2011, 11:00 PM
 
Location: Sarasota, Florida
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Why would you be flattered by getting attention from gay men? Your name wouldn't be BRUCIE would it?-lol

Well I'm flattered when women approach me....or compliment me.......what's the difference?????? I'm secure in my sexuality, aren't you???

By the way: I have a question.......Does this rag smell of chloroform????? .....ROFL.......
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Old 04-29-2011, 12:15 AM
 
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I find your post.......intolerant......arrogant.......homophob ic and frankly you are CLUELESS.

Also I take great offense at you having the gaul to call me "sick"......people who think(and I use that term loosely here) like you are truly the sick parts of our society!!!!!

Gay Is Okay With APA (American Psychiatric Association) (http://www.soulforce.org/article/642 - broken link)

Official Statement Concerning Homosexuality from the American Psychological Association | CLGS

Being gay is one's sexual orientation........just like heterosexuality.......educate yourself before posting lies and misinformation!!!!!
Excuse me but please educate YOURSELF
No Apologies (http://noapologies.ca/guest-columnists/analysis/homosexual-harassment-campaign-to-force-apa-to-support-homosexuality - broken link)
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Old 04-29-2011, 12:24 AM
 
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Until it becomes obvious means "push me enough and you'll feel the 'overtones' of my hostility towards homosexual come-ons if you are into reading overtones."

And men/women who quietly go home and have sex with their dog won't tell you about it either but they are your neighbors, politicians, in the police and fire depts, serve in the military, play on pro sports teams, are friends, family, co-workers etc................

But that doesn't make human-animal sex a good thing so what does your example prove?
You spend a lot of time in gay threads. Interesting.

oh, and your little example -- consent, makes a world of difference.
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Old 04-29-2011, 12:46 AM
 
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You spend a lot of time in gay threads. Interesting.

oh, and your little example -- consent, makes a world of difference.
Whoa! Wait a min!

Don't tell me that you are trying to out.................

WALT HOWE????????????????????:shocked :
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Old 04-29-2011, 12:59 AM
 
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You spend a lot of time in gay threads. Interesting.

oh, and your little example -- consent, makes a world of difference.
Ah see but my "little" example is valid in the context of which it was used. Please kindly go back and re-read those posts once again.
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Old 04-29-2011, 03:21 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Gayest. Thread. Ever.
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Old 04-29-2011, 05:41 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Well I'm flattered when women approach me....or compliment me.......what's the difference?????? I'm secure in my sexuality, aren't you???

By the way: I have a question.......Does this rag smell of chloroform????? .....ROFL.......
I'm only flattered when I get attention from pretty women. And for you to be flattered by getting attention from men let's me know you were attracted to some of those men. Lol
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Old 04-29-2011, 10:21 AM
 
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I had a gay friend tell me that in the gay community, there are a lot of guys who fantasize about about being with a straight guy kind of how lots of straight men get excited by lesbian porn. I wonder if that has anything to do with the behavior you described?
It's not some fantacy about being with a straight guy, per say, it's just wanting to be with a hot guy - who may or may not be gay.

Like straight guys liking lesbian porn - they like women and are watching two of them getting it on together. It gets you hot and bothered.

As a gay person, I think it's absolutely rediculous the amount of time and energy devoted to gay vs. anti-gay.

I was born liking men, other men were born liking women. I have lesbian friends who are attracted to and love women, and I have straight friends who are attracted to and love men. At the end of the day - what's the big deal? People are who they are.

Gay people aren't a THREAT to straight people as much as straight people should be no threat to gay people. People need to worry about their issues and happiness, and everyone else should just go on living their own lives. Who cares if two gay men move in next door. Should I be all crazed if two straight people move in next door to me?? Outside the bedroom, gay/straight should mean as much as left vs right handedness. The whole thing where people think gays are going to magically make their children gay, or they want to molest little kids - it's so silly. Molesting children is a horrible issue that has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
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Old 04-29-2011, 10:35 AM
 
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What I always thought was hilarious was when I lived with a girl and she'd have whoever she was dating over to hang out. She'd always mention that I was gay, because obviously they'd see her living with a guy and wonder WTF (I'm not "gay acting" at all, so they didn't just assume).

At some point, for whatever reason, many of them would ask her if I was attracted to them. I'm assuming they very rarely came into contact with gay people and were curious. She'd always ask me, and normally I'd say no - not at all, cause I'm just not into the same type of men she was.

She'd tell the guys just to see their reaction, and damn - most of them would get SO offended and bent out of shape! I guess in their minds they just think gay men must want to get with and are attracted to ALL men out there. They don't realize that just like they might only be attracted to 30% of women - I'm only attracted to around 30% of men in general. A vast majority of men do absolutely nothing to me.

I laugh when macho straight guys hear someone is gay, and then do the "god, he must be checking me out right now, that's so sick. I don't want him staring at me". Of course the guy saying this is rancid in so many ways and normally couldn't pick up a girl to save his life. But oh yeah....the guys just think you're a total stud muffin. Haha.

I've told a lot of straight coworkers I'm gay, since most of them had no idea and I don't fit the normal "gay" vision people seem to have (of course in reality there are A LOT of gays who just fly right under the radar of straight people because they all act "normal"). Every one of them has been extremely open, even the guys keep on being close friends just as before, and they tend to do the "so...do you care if I ask you like 1,000 questions?".
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Old 04-29-2011, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Coolhand...

Why are you so into 'labels'??

In the next world, if you had no 'gender'...what would your identity be??

Please answer that question as honestly as you can...

Also...are suns or stars feminane, masculine or gender neutral...please answer that question also...


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