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Old 08-01-2017, 10:50 PM
 
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They do.

There are vast numbers of people who consider NYC style urban life absolute hell, and will do anything they have to in orderived to avoid it. Obviously I don't, since I live here. But it's an acquired taste, and it helps a lot if you don't have kids.

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How do you define a better life? A big house in the sticks with nothing else around?
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Old 08-02-2017, 03:03 AM
 
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They're jerking themselves really. There's no way a commute like that is sustainable. You pay either way - with money or with time, nothing is free
That is true. There is no free lunch. I am prepared to pay with time and commuting costs. What you get for the money in NYC is disappointing.
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Old 08-02-2017, 03:17 AM
 
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I don't have sympathy for these people.. if they can't afford NYC, too bad. :P
No one is looking for your sympathy. NYC housing stock does not suit everyone. People venture out to get what they want. It is as simply as that.
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Old 08-02-2017, 03:20 AM
 
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The "bennies" are also better in PA. Why live in squalid Section 8 housing here if you can qualify for a Section 8 townhouse in Bethlehem or Harrisburg? PA isn't only for NYers buying in the Pocanos.
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Old 08-02-2017, 03:35 AM
 
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How do you define a better life? A big house in the sticks with nothing else around?
For some, yes. Many of us have stressful days and it is nice to retreat to a beautiful home that is quiet and tranquil.
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Old 08-02-2017, 05:06 AM
 
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I see it the other way around. They're sacrificing to give their families a better way of life.
A better life?? They are commuting 2 to 3 hours in the AM and again in the PM. Once they arrive home they are burnt out. The weekend comes and then they have errands to run, house chores, soccer practice, etc. A person can get old quick with that lifestyle. You also run the risk of burnout. No bueno, dude!

Tiddays all day everyday!!!
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Old 08-02-2017, 06:00 AM
 
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A better life?? They are commuting 2 to 3 hours in the AM and again in the PM. Once they arrive home they are burnt out. The weekend comes and then they have errands to run, house chores, soccer practice, etc. A person can get old quick with that lifestyle. You also run the risk of burnout. No bueno, dude!

Tiddays all day everyday!!!
Getting burned out is not uncommon among people who work in NYC. Even the ones who live closer.
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Old 08-02-2017, 07:09 AM
 
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Getting burned out is not uncommon among people who work in NYC. Even the ones who live closer.
a 2 to 3 hour commute one way, bruh...
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Old 08-02-2017, 07:24 AM
 
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Don't worry, Elon will fix this
Yep, the delightful daily commute will be from MARS.


The reason that NYC is so crowded and expensive is that people have decided EN MASSE that a long commute SUCKS...and all the king's horsemen and all the Times realtors cannot put people into the suburbs again.
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Old 08-02-2017, 07:24 AM
 
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Largely missing from this thread but mentioned several times in the NYT piece is that many workers these days can and do work from home several days per week.


Technology is changing how people "work" and given the spread of things such as high speed internet connections and home/mobile devices does give options.
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