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Old 03-06-2022, 04:21 PM
 
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His last girlfriend was barely 21, he's almost 40. He was having the usual problems because she was uncomfortable with his kinks.
He’s in his 30’s. They’re both mentally disabled. Having kinks doesn’t make him a bad person. I think a lot of the times he just said out loud what other people don’t because he lacked awareness of what is appropriate. I don’t think he was a pervert.

 
Old 03-07-2022, 03:37 AM
 
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I've always wondered - how do people know when a poster has been banned rather than simply dropped out?
When it says Not a Member under their name, that is almost always a sign that they were banned.
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Old 03-14-2022, 11:13 AM
 
Location: WA
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SleathRabbit ? Hasn't Posted since 15 February. Anyone know, ?
 
Old 03-14-2022, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Mr. Roger's Neighborhood
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SleathRabbit ? Hasn't Posted since 15 February. Anyone know, ?
I've been concerned about him, too. Hopefully, someone here knows how he's doing.
 
Old 03-25-2022, 02:14 AM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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I'm sad to say that after doing a little digging, I found out that one of the members I was friends with but she had dropped out of CD several years ago, well she has passed away in January of this year. She was only 57 years old. I came across her online obituary. She was a regular poster on Relationships forum.

If you think about it, this forum has brought so many people together whose life's paths crossed here in some remarkable way, and we don't really think about letting each other know in what way they touched us. I had mentioned this poster's profile name in a reply in this thread, and had I looked into our DM exchanges at that time (in 2021) I could have emailed her and connected with her before she passed away.

Am I being overly sentimental? Or is it just because most of us have been dealing with a lot more death in the last few years than we ever did before?
 
Old 03-25-2022, 07:16 AM
 
Location: WA
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DontH8Me, overly sentimental you are not. You, like others who Post on this Thread, do care about other Posters with whom we had contact, read often in other Threads.

May I know the Posters City-Data name. Another widow told me to ask about the person rather than "I'm sorry".

As I shared many times, my late husband Bruce, was 40 when permanently disabled. Our Lord allowed us another 25 years together. Life is be to cherished One Day at a Time

How can one hate you, your Post is very caring. Thank you for sharing.
 
Old 03-25-2022, 08:56 AM
 
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I'm sad to say that after doing a little digging, I found out that one of the members I was friends with but she had dropped out of CD several years ago, well she has passed away in January of this year. She was only 57 years old. I came across her online obituary. She was a regular poster on Relationships forum.

If you think about it, this forum has brought so many people together whose life's paths crossed here in some remarkable way, and we don't really think about letting each other know in what way they touched us. I had mentioned this poster's profile name in a reply in this thread, and had I looked into our DM exchanges at that time (in 2021) I could have emailed her and connected with her before she passed away.

Am I being overly sentimental? Or is it just because most of us have been dealing with a lot more death in the last few years than we ever did before?
No, you aren't being overly sentimental, although I think we who have been dealing with a lot more death in the last few years are feeling bombed by it. I know I am.

I recently learned of a death of a long-time poster on the Religion & Spirituality forum. He'd stopped posting suddenly, and another member and I tried to find out what happened to him. The other member had once sent him something so he had his home email, and the missing poster had sent something to him copying another person, so he wrote to her and asked. He didn't hear anything for a while but recently got a message from this woman saying that the missing CD member had died last year. He was close to 80. He was a good one.

You get attached to people even though you never met them.

Twenty years ago this year, I started posting on an AOL message board that became sort of a little community. I met two people from that board in person, and I'm still friends with a few of them, now on Facebook.

One of the regulars, a single, older guy, lived in the Hell's Kitchen section of Manhattan. After 9/11, he no longer wanted to stay in the city, so he moved down to North Carolina where he knew a friend and he got a job at a big box store. One night walking home from his job, two lowlifes took his wallet and then shot him in the head just for the hell of it. He was a little guy around 60 with grey hair and they were men in their 20s. There was no rhyme or reason for it (they were caught and are now in prison). We were devastated, and it was so ironic that he'd fled the city for somewhere he felt was safer and met a violent end anyway.
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Old 03-25-2022, 09:11 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I'm sad to say that after doing a little digging, I found out that one of the members I was friends with but she had dropped out of CD several years ago, well she has passed away in January of this year. She was only 57 years old. I came across her online obituary. She was a regular poster on Relationships forum.
Who was this?
 
Old 03-25-2022, 10:57 AM
 
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SleathRabbit ? Hasn't Posted since 15 February. Anyone know, ?
There is a new poster named Boots23, who created an account in early March and has 80 or so posts since then, and the writing style is very similar/identical to SleathRabbit.

I just assumed that maybe he forget his login and decided to create a new account?

I could be wrong, but their writing style and their knowledge on certain topics is a dead ringer for SealthRabbit.

Check it out and let me know what you think.
 
Old 03-25-2022, 01:15 PM
 
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There is a new poster named Boots23, who created an account in early March and has 80 or so posts since then, and the writing style is very similar/identical to SleathRabbit.

I just assumed that maybe he forget his login and decided to create a new account?

I could be wrong, but their writing style and their knowledge on certain topics is a dead ringer for SealthRabbit.

Check it out and let me know what you think.
I think you win the prize.
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