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I have an issue with white gay men adopting black boys or any boys frankly. I think there is something sexual going on there.
It's relatively easy for gays to adopt black children. Interestingly however, most adoption centers are very selective with placing white children with homosexuals. Even heterosexual couples often have difficulties adopting white American children. This is why it's especially important for black families to dismantle the liberalism and reclaim the nuclear family structure in lieu of out of wedlock children.
One never knows what goes on in any household, but I can only imagine that it has to be extremely damaging for boys and girls to be raised by two male homosexual couples or two female homosexual couples who are not related to them.
My name is Dawn Stefanowicz, I grew up in a homosexual household during the 60s and 70s in Toronto, exposed to many different people in GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, bisexual, Transsexual) subcultures, and explicit sexual practices. I have considered some of the potential physical and psychological health risks for children raised in this situation. I was at high risk of exposure to contagious STDs due to sexual molestation, my father's high-risk sexual behaviors, and multiple partners. Even when my father was in what looked like monogamous relationships, he continued cruising for anonymous sex.
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If the right really cared "about the children" they wouldn't be obsessed with gay sex but would be funding social programs that help children in poor families.
There is a LOT more to a family than sperm + egg... just ask anyone who was raised successfully by a grandparent, step-parent, aunt/uncle, single parent, sibling, etc. As long as they're happy with the situation, who is anyone else to judge?
Maybe everyone should worry less about how other people are living, and more about their own lives. Novel concept, I know! And judging by some of the kids I deal with at work, who do have a mother & father, I can't imagine two gay parents would necessarily do any worse.
There is a LOT more to a family than sperm + egg... just ask anyone who was raised successfully by a grandparent, step-parent, aunt/uncle, single parent, sibling, etc. As long as they're happy with the situation, who is anyone else to judge?
Maybe everyone should worry less about how other people are living, and more about their own lives. Novel concept, I know! And judging by some of the kids I deal with at work, who do have a mother & father, I can't imagine two gay parents would necessarily do any worse.
That is the way God Made it- Man and Woman. If Only we would listen to these children who have been brought up with the correct role model of a man and a woman family.
So, when daddy and mommy get divorced for whatever reason, whomever is granted custody of the child/children, that adult should go out and find another father/mother figure. OoooooooK.
Last edited by CaseyB; 03-28-2013 at 05:52 PM..
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If only we would listen to children of different household layouts. We'd find out that they're all children capable of being loved and well taken care of by the family raising them.
My father managed to raise two girls by himself after my mother skirted off the responsibility of being a parent and left. So if one man can raise girls, why can't two men? Why can't one woman raise a child? And if a single mother can raise a child, then why can't two?
What would children choose if given a choice? A mom and a dad, two dads or two moms? Grandparents and aunts and uncles are capable or loving children and raising them too but if you gave them a choice, which would they choose?
[quote=NoJiveMan;28870202]So, when daddy and mommy get divorced for whatever reason, whomever is granted custody of the child/children, that adult should go out and find another father/mother figure. OoooooooK.
Why would they need to? The child still has both a mother and a father in a divorce situation. What you do is whatever you can to preserve the relationship the child has with both parents. Remarriage actually is what hurts because that introduces a third and fourth party to the mix the child has to share time with.
While divorce, certainly, is not best, you can maintain the relationship both parents have with the child after a divorce.
Why would they need to? The child still has both a mother and a father in a divorce situation. What you do is whatever you can to preserve the relationship the child has with both parents. Remarriage actually is what hurts because that introduces a third and fourth party to the mix the child has to share time with.
While divorce, certainly, is not best, you can maintain the relationship both parents have with the child after a divorce.
I know of a gay {M to F} transexual who was married w/one child {divorced}.
Mommy doesn't want daddy to see his son anymore, even though said transexual does not dress in female attire when visitation rights are exercised.
You've got a simple answer for that one too I would suppose!
I'm beginning to really dislike these armchair quarterback relationship experts.
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