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So many other bad things can happen while passed out drunk... so the point is, NO ONE should ever drink to the point of passing out. And that is why some of the blame does lie with the drunkard. And not every passerby can be counted on to be a gentleman or good Samaritan. That girl was plain stupid to be drinking so much in the company of strangers. Where were her girlfriends at? What idiot goes to a campus party like that alone and without other friends to look out for each other.
And yes, I am tired of decades of watching young girls, teen girls and young adult women dressed up like sex kittens. Every young woman wearing thong panties, with a tramp stamp, odd body piercings, high heels and a Brazilian wax job or a landing strip. They come across as being ready for sex at a moments notice, so of course the boys think that the girls want sex as much as they do. And the kids are indeed having sex at a much earlier age than when I was young.
I agree with your first paragraph. And to some extent, the second. But guys are kidding themselves if they think girls want sex, especially no strings attached sex, as much as they do. Not that women don't have sexual urges, but a large part of the sexy presentation is just to keep up with others, draw attention to themselves, and to attract guys....to get them to be their boyfriends, husbands, baby daddies, and so on. Why do so many women lose interest in guys/sex once they are married and, especially after they fulfill their biological urge to procreate?
And preteens are even dressing sexy---I don't think they really are wanting sex. They are wanting to appear older, hot, and available....but mostly available to attract male interest, to validate themselves---not strictly for sex. But you're right. Probably the average guy doesn't realize that or doesn't care---like at wealthy men who get "hot" women---they don't either know or care that these women wouldn't be with them if they weren't famous/rich.
So many other bad things can happen while passed out drunk... so the point is, NO ONE should ever drink to the point of passing out. And that is why some of the blame does lie with the drunkard. And not every passerby can be counted on to be a gentleman or good Samaritan. That girl was plain stupid to be drinking so much in the company of strangers. Where were her girlfriends at? What idiot goes to a campus party like that alone and without other friends to look out for each other.
And yes, I am tired of decades of watching young girls, teen girls and young adult women dressed up like sex kittens. Every young woman wearing thong panties, with a tramp stamp, odd body piercings, high heels and a Brazilian wax job or a landing strip. They come across as being ready for sex at a moments notice, so of course the boys think that the girls want sex as much as they do. And the kids are indeed having sex at a much earlier age than when I was young.
Your anger for younger women is duly noted. I guess we should go back to the days of ankle length skirts and wool sweaters.
Actually your post makes me sick. People like you are why rape victims don't come forward. Shame on you!!!
So many other bad things can happen while passed out drunk... so the point is, NO ONE should ever drink to the point of passing out. And that is why some of the blame does lie with the drunkard. And not every passerby can be counted on to be a gentleman or good Samaritan. That girl was plain stupid to be drinking so much in the company of strangers. Where were her girlfriends at? What idiot goes to a campus party like that alone and without other friends to look out for each other.
And yes, I am tired of decades of watching young girls, teen girls and young adult women dressed up like sex kittens. Every young woman wearing thong panties, with a tramp stamp, odd body piercings, high heels and a Brazilian wax job or a landing strip. They come across as being ready for sex at a moments notice, so of course the boys think that the girls want sex as much as they do. And the kids are indeed having sex at a much earlier age than when I was young.
I sure would like to think you are a female, because much of what you write is bad enough coming from a woman let alone a man...
Women should be able to dress as they wish, perhaps with at least some respect for the law, "puritan" though those laws may be sometimes. Likewise men should respect women's rights and not act stupid.
Which gets me to the point noted in bold above...
Being "plain stupid" is NOT against the law and generally is not considered any sort of crime, but there is plenty of stupid out there, and as a result, yes, plain stupid things happen, sometimes even resulting in death. All justifications and/or excuses, right or wrong, notwithstanding...
This "boys will be boys" ruling is a vicious slap in the face of every sexual assault victim, especially those who have chosen to step forward and seek justice. I hope it becomes a focal point to highlight just how awful things still are. This case needs to become a catalyst for change.
I don't agree with this at all, as if this rapist is some tender snowflake.
Maybe this is just women's lib reaping what it sows. If a man was raped by a woman, I'll bet the jury would have little sympathy for him, and the woman would get off with a light form of punishment.
I agree with your first paragraph. And to some extent, the second. But guys are kidding themselves if they think girls want sex, especially no strings attached sex, as much as they do. Not that women don't have sexual urges, but a large part of the sexy presentation is just to keep up with others, draw attention to themselves, and to attract guys....to get them to be their boyfriends, husbands, baby daddies, and so on. Why do so many women lose interest in guys/sex once they are married and, especially after they fulfill their biological urge to procreate?
And preteens are even dressing sexy---I don't think they really are wanting sex. They are wanting to appear older, hot, and available....but mostly available to attract male interest, to validate themselves---not strictly for sex. But you're right. Probably the average guy doesn't realize that or doesn't care---like at wealthy men who get "hot" women---they don't either know or care that these women wouldn't be with them if they weren't famous/rich.
You too, I wonder, is this a male or female perspective?
I ask, because you remind me of a debate that many women will argue, that they do NOT dress to attract men as a rule unless they are specifically out for that purpose. Otherwise dress, sexy or not, is more just about how they want to look or feel in light of the fashions or mood of the day, largely as mostly followed by women. All to say that women in general dress more to look and feel good as recognized by other women, not so much men.
So many other bad things can happen while passed out drunk... so the point is, NO ONE should ever drink to the point of passing out. And that is why some of the blame does lie with the drunkard. And not every passerby can be counted on to be a gentleman or good Samaritan. That girl was plain stupid to be drinking so much in the company of strangers. Where were her girlfriends at? What idiot goes to a campus party like that alone and without other friends to look out for each other.
And yes, I am tired of decades of watching young girls, teen girls and young adult women dressed up like sex kittens. Every young woman wearing thong panties, with a tramp stamp, odd body piercings, high heels and a Brazilian wax job or a landing strip. They come across as being ready for sex at a moments notice, so of course the boys think that the girls want sex as much as they do. And the kids are indeed having sex at a much earlier age than when I was young.
No way in heaven or hell you're a woman.
She this, she that. Nothing about the actual criminal and offender.
I don't agree with this at all, as if this rapist is some tender snowflake.
Maybe this is just women's lib reaping what it sows. If a man was raped by a woman, I'll bet the jury would have little sympathy for him, and the woman would get off with a light form of punishment.
Again, the crime of rape has little to do with gender.
"Rape is a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration perpetrated against a person without that person's consent."
When doing something physical to someone else who does not consent to that action, what the Hell difference does it make who is doing what to whom when there is no consent, let alone objection? Also, again, I think if men thought about rape in terms of man on man instead of woman on man, some male thoughts, notions and comments wouldn't be such as they are, generally "off the mark."
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