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I am sorry but I fail to see the connection between palying between playing video games, or not having job and being selfish.
Where did I say anything about video games? I'm talking about young men that only want to do what they want to do, and have no sense of responsibility. They only think about themselves and their wants. If they can support themselves and their family, and play video games, who cares.
Not at all. Just disappointed. I see young men that have children they refuse to support, and have no desire to succeed in life.
I don't blame them entirely. I blame, in part, the feminist movement. We've raised an entire generation of men to believe that they are unnecessary. We see proof the children raised in single parent homes don't do as well in life as children raised in a 2-parent home, but society still sends the message to men that they just need to donate sperm and go.
Not at all. Just disappointed. I see young men that have children they refuse to support, and have no desire to succeed in life.
I don't blame them entirely. I blame, in part, the feminist movement. We've raised an entire generation of men to believe that they are unnecessary. We see proof the children raised in single parent homes don't do as well in life as children raised in a 2-parent home, but society still sends the message to men that they just need to donate sperm and go.
Perhaps these young men were raised in single parent households themselves. Generations don't exist in a vacuum.
I don't blame them entirely. I blame, in part, the feminist movement. We've raised an entire generation of men to believe that they are unnecessary.
Not to beat this dead horse, but feminism is not about making men unnecessary, but about giving women and men more choices as to how they want to live their lives. In a perfect world, feminism frees men from the pressure of traditional gender roles in which they have to be the sole provider, the head of household, the strong, silent type, etc. True, some men have difficulty finding their place without these roles, but it also allows men like the OP who want nothing to do with marriage and family to be open and unashamed of that.
You are 18 years old, you will encounter the female sex every day of your life. As time goes by, your negative feelings towards women will change. Also know that women out number and out live men. The good news is that not all women want children, and not all women seek men for financial support. Choose a mate carefully, and you can have an enjoyable and long lasting relationship.
I hate these kind of non thinking, knee jerking reaction type answers. NEWSFLASH: There is no "right woman" for any man other then his mother who will be there for him win, loose, or draw.
Not at all. Just disappointed. I see young men that have children they refuse to support, and have no desire to succeed in life.
I don't blame them entirely. I blame, in part, the feminist movement. We've raised an entire generation of men to believe that they are unnecessary. We see proof the children raised in single parent homes don't do as well in life as children raised in a 2-parent home, but society still sends the message to men that they just need to donate sperm and go.
An argument can be made that feminism was, and is, primarily intended to benefit educated, affluent women and it is these women who tend to get and stay married to raise their children in intact families. There are many variables at play when it comes to single parent homes starting with SES disparity, which I think is a major player. And sure, civil rights play a role since women are no longer dependent on men, but I think men are becoming more involved with their children today than they ever have in the past. Historically men have been separate (emotionally, spiritually, even physically) from their children, as opposed to women who have always been the primary caretakers of children while men have been the primary caretakers of women I guess. Based on what I've been reading that is slowly changing and that is where the focus needs to be imo.
Not to beat this dead horse, but feminism is not about making men unnecessary, but about giving women and men more choices as to how they want to live their lives. In a perfect world, feminism frees men from the pressure of traditional gender roles in which they have to be the sole provider, the head of household, the strong, silent type, etc. True, some men have difficulty finding their place without these roles, but it also allows men like the OP who want nothing to do with marriage and family to be open and unashamed of that.
I don't think men are free from gender roles at all. Feminism was not about men. It was all about benefiting women.
Stay at home dads are mocked by society, not appreciated. Men are look down or labeled loser if they don't have job....
Women are free to choose to purse their dreams or be a stay at home mom later on.
I can only open about it in internet otherwise people mostly judge me or label me as gay.
A slogan from a popular feminist " A woman need a man like a fish needs a bicycle".... Pretty much shows the whole picture and i agree with ringwise.....
I hate these kind of non thinking, knee jerking reaction type answers. NEWSFLASH: There is no "right woman" for any man other then his mother who will be there for him win, loose, or draw.
True that...... She is one of the person along with my father i wake up everyday for.... Mate, seems like you are somewhat like me. Are you in the MGTOW camp ?
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