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Old 04-09-2020, 10:34 AM
 
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Haven't heard "hubby" and "wifey" outside TV shows. But "kiddo" bothers me because so many teachers use it when referring to the students. It just comes across as condescending and disrespectful of the students. It makes it less about the students learning environment and converts them to just widgets in the education "factory."
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Old 04-09-2020, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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“The wife” when referring to one’s own wife, instead of saying “My wife.”

Never heard a woman say “The” husband instead of “my husband.”
My grandmother used to jokingly call my grandfather "my first husband." He was her only husband.
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Old 04-09-2020, 11:25 AM
 
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I don't mind any of those terms - could be called a lot worse.
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Old 04-09-2020, 12:00 PM
 
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I have a thread on "little man" for a baby in another forum and people are freaking out that it's a norm. I think its creepy. As is "princess." English is not my first language and I had not heard little man. I won't use it. Others really are defending it as cute. I think it blurs a boundary between what a child is supposed to be doing...being a child...and pushes the idea that they have to be somehow a masculine adult, almost a contemporary of the parent.

Princess just smacks of entitlement. At least to me.
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Old 04-09-2020, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Wasilla, AK
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My grandmother used to jokingly call my grandfather "my first husband." He was her only husband.
I do this to my wife all the time. Or I refer to her as "my current wife"...
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Old 04-09-2020, 12:55 PM
 
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None of these terms bother me.
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Old 04-09-2020, 12:58 PM
 
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None of these terms bother me.
That's probably a sign of mental maturity. A good thing.
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Old 04-09-2020, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Outskirts of Gray Court, and love it!
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As a hubby to the wifey, and daddy to the kiddos, I think its funny as hell someone gets annoyed by things like that.
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Old 04-09-2020, 04:05 PM
 
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That's probably a sign of mental maturity. A good thing.
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Old 04-09-2020, 04:44 PM
 
Location: Colorado
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My aunt took offense to the term "kids" when referring to her children. She said kids are goats. She also called them miracles since the two girls were born after many years of trying.
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