Do you think that Master/Slave relationships are ok? (guys, lover, single)
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It is not consenting to torture.Its not like I am being waterboarded or anything.We never do anything that would put our lives at risk.Limits are well established.
If this is not your thing then you can move along.I just hope that I have not offended you in anyway or that you have taken any of my posts as an insult.If that is the case then I appologize.
I do not wish to talk to you, just to let you know I won't be bothering with you.
women are caregivers and compassionate by nature. it would be real easy to forget who we are and that we have choice when you are young and inexperienced in relationships period. harder still when your man and you are immersed a the lifestyle that you both get off by the act of eating out of one another hands while on your knees (or other situation your master puts you in) it is quite another to discover 6 months later, 2 years later he is just a controlling arse with a kink. an extreme example would be the misogyny that mel gibson exposed on his phone rants. mel bellowed how he owned her, she needed to blo*w him. there is a fine line. I am sure there are lots of "normal, nice" dom/sub relationships and my concern would not apply. however I would think too it is a great lifestyle to be in if you are a user, player.
I'm all for freedom of religion; I'm against cults.
I'm all for what consenting adults do; you shouldn't be able to consent to toruture.
exactally. to our OP some would consider the life style cult like. just like the women who have plural marriages. be they religious or not.
I don't see BDSM as torture for the people who are in it. however I don't think I would want to have to work up a tolerance to a pain level for sex and love.
I do know that some of the allure of the BDSM is the trust that is built up between partners that is the high as well as the physical stuff
If you have physical pain in a relationship, I don't see how it can possibly be ok. I am lucky because no one I know is in this type of relationship. I live in a fairly conservative area of the country, and this thread makes me glad I do. It is not up to me to judge you, and I am not. I just hope you are truly ok, because you are very young.
exactally. to our OP some would consider the life style cult like. just like the women who have plural marriages. be they religious or not.
I don't see BDSM as torture for the people who are in it. however I don't think I would want to have to work up a tolerance to a pain level for sex and love.
I do know that some of the allure of the BDSM is the trust that is built up between partners that is the high as well as the physical stuff
Agree. BDSM (I am guessing that is the whip stuff) is whatever. Do what you want...just don't come at me with it or you'll lose an arm. Emulating slavery is obscene. This is very similar to parading around a park, with a swastika tattoo and then claiming freedom of expression. Claim that if you want...doesn't make you any less disgusting.
If you have physical pain in a relationship, I don't see how it can possibly be ok. I am lucky because no one I know is in this type of relationship. I live in a fairly conservative area of the country, and this thread makes me glad I do. It is not up to me to judge you, and I am not. I just hope you are truly ok, because you are very young.
many people in all walks of life practice this lifestyle. straight "vanilla" people practice it to in much more subtle ways. who wears the "pants" in the family. someone who is in charge all day long comes home and wants the spouse to do all the "heavy lifting" the life style the OP is talking about is a bit more complex.
women are caregivers and compassionate by nature. it would be real easy to forget who we are and that we have choice when you are young and inexperienced in relationships period. harder still when your man and you are immersed a the lifestyle that you both get off by the act of eating out of one another hands while on your knees (or other situation your master puts you in) it is quite another to discover 6 months later, 2 years later he is just a controlling arse with a kink. an extreme example would be the misogyny that mel gibson exposed on his phone rants. mel bellowed how he owned her, she needed to blo*w him. there is a fine line. I am sure there are lots of "normal, nice" dom/sub relationships and my concern would not apply. however I would think too it is a great lifestyle to be in if you are a user, player.
Everything you have said is spot on.
I have been in a couple of relationships that after a few months, the guy would start spouting about how they wanted a "submissive" woman.
I would be thinking "why are you even dating me then, since I am sooo not that woman?"
Suffice it to say, they didnt last long after that.
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