Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 02-11-2019, 01:51 PM
 
11,230 posts, read 9,341,971 times
Reputation: 32264

Advertisements

Sounds like a theory about realationships with women coming from a lonely guy.


I don't tend to take such very seriously.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 02-11-2019, 01:55 PM
 
Location: So Cal
19,432 posts, read 15,264,990 times
Reputation: 20383
Quote:
Originally Posted by ChiGal7 View Post
If a man doesn't cry when something legitimately sad happens that would make anyone cry, then I am suspicious of him about why he lacks feelings. I have no problem with a guy who has sympathy and empathy for others and who isn't afraid to show it. Or who has a healthy way of releasing their sadness through their tears. It's totally normal and not at all something he should be judged about.
Exactly. I would have more trouble accepting the opposite scenario, him never crying.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
2,822 posts, read 1,930,928 times
Reputation: 3074
Quote:
Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
A man who cries is not in control of his emotions. Not in control. Crying is reserved for the death of his mother and favorite dog.
And what if his dad or grandparent died? Or sibling? Or child? Is that not okay? Has to just be his mother or ''Favorite'' dog? Really, guy?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:41 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
2,089 posts, read 3,909,742 times
Reputation: 2695
Yes.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
2,822 posts, read 1,930,928 times
Reputation: 3074
Quote:
Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
Yes.
So crying if your mother or ''Favorite'' dog dies is okay, but not if your grandmother dies or your dad or your child?

Wow, this is dumb ASF.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:45 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
2,089 posts, read 3,909,742 times
Reputation: 2695
A man must stand strong and attentive in a sad or dangerous situation. It is his shoulder that others lean on and cry.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
2,822 posts, read 1,930,928 times
Reputation: 3074
Quote:
Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
A man must stand strong and attentive in a sad or dangerous situation. It is his shoulder that others lean on and cry.
So a man isn't even allowed to cry in private by himself? Who says he needs a shoulder to lean on? This is real Neanderthalian drivel....

And your thinking the death of a dog means more than the death of another close relative that isn't a mother is also something that some people would think is beyond asinine and ridiculous.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 07:55 PM
 
10 posts, read 9,546 times
Reputation: 29
Cry it out! Crying is normal.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 08:11 PM
 
2,634 posts, read 2,680,928 times
Reputation: 6513
Quote:
Originally Posted by Danbo1957 View Post
A man who cries is not in control of his emotions. Not in control. Crying is reserved for the death of his mother and favorite dog.
I do believe a broken leg lamp might qualify a man for a good weep.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-11-2019, 09:11 PM
 
Location: San Antonio, TX
2,089 posts, read 3,909,742 times
Reputation: 2695
^^^ Bwahahaha!!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top