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I think ANYONE has the right to approach anyone of their choosing. If they are genuine, regardless of their looks, then there's a chance that the person they're approaching will like them back.
Let me elaborate. While at work I was thinking (instead of working). How many people believe that unattractive or ugly people have no right or are hypoctites for only wanting very attractive people? Is that a clear question? This is most noticeable when one unattractive person asks out another unattractive person just to get shot down for not being attractive. Or when an attractive person brings on the whole "back off, your out of your league". Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
Ugly people can want attractive people all they want. They have the "right." But in most cases they won't get an attractive person. To break it down any further, the odds of an ugly woman being with an attractive man are slim to none. An ugly man will need status and / or money to be with an attractive woman.
Let me elaborate. While at work I was thinking (instead of working). How many people believe that unattractive or ugly people have no right or are hypoctites for only wanting very attractive people? Is that a clear question? This is most noticeable when one unattractive person asks out another unattractive person just to get shot down for not being attractive. Or when an attractive person brings on the whole "back off, your out of your league". Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
The whole ideas of leagues, that people simply aren't entitled to desire those regarded as more attractive, is elitist rubbish. That said, the idea anyone can endear themselves to anyone is also rubbish. People tend to find mates similar to themselves, in terms of looks, wealth, education level, etc. There are occasional exceptions, but not many.
The whole ideas of leagues, that people simply aren't entitled to desire those regarded as more attractive, is elitist rubbish. That said, the idea anyone can endear themselves to anyone is also rubbish. People tend to find mates similar to themselves, in terms of looks, wealth, education level, etc. There are occasional exceptions, but not many.
I agree, the truth is somewhere in the middle (as it usually is.) Can a blue collar mechanic date someone from Stanford with a biology degree and who works in a lab? Sure...it's possible. But is it more likely that the mechanic will end up just dating and marrying someone he and his family knew from his high school? Yes.
Personally I think that socio-economic status and cultural background have a stronger influence on matches than looks.
It's true! I don't approach men often at all (in fact, it's very rare), but there have been a few instances in which I've approached men who looked absolutely perfect and who I would rate as '10s'. It was very intimidating, as I'm sure they could have any woman they wanted, but I figured I'd give it a shot.
I see it all the time...an "ugly" person with a beautiful person...It appears that their must be a beauty inside the "ugly" person that the visually beautiful person has the insight to see. If you are dumb and ugly then you are pretty much screwed. Go for what you want. Most people whether they be ugly or beautiful believe they do not deserve to have a beautiful person in their life....so they settle for less....GO FOR IT...the worst that can happen is that you will be rejected...and being "ugly" I am sure you are battle hardened and use to rejection...You have nothing to lose.
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). How many people believe that unattractive or ugly people have no right or are hypoctites for only wanting very attractive people? Is that a clear question? This is most noticeable when one unattractive person asks out another unattractive person just to get shot down for not being attractive. Or when an attractive person brings on the whole "back off, your out of your league". Do many people believe in "leagues"? Or do you believe in the whole Hitch movie theory. That anyone can sweep anyone off their feet if they have the right broom.
